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Home >> Lesbians >> why is it so hard to find true love?
26.08.2006, 11:22 quote
I find the whole emotional game so hard, I don't do one night stands, have a big heart , and genuienly treat women with 100% respect. Yet i seem to get nothing like what i have to offer, in return!! I just crave for love and my loneliness eats away @ me .Yet i don't want any random woman to hurt me, yet you have to try before you buy if you like lol . So does anyone know what to look for and what expectations i should have
26.08.2006, 17:56 quote
do you think that in todays society true love exists? What is love in your opionion , plz share your thoughts and feelings , as i'm intregued
26.08.2006, 23:26 quote
Yes I do believe in true love and I do believe there is someone for eveyone. If I didnt believe that then I might as well just give up on trying to find the right person for me.
31.08.2006, 17:29 quote
yer i hear you , but what i;m saying is whats your beliefs and views on love?and where and how fo you come by it ? i've been treated like shit by every partner and just want to be loved for who i am!!!
01.09.2006, 09:52 quote
I believe in true love,
I think a way to find a decent woman is when you have met someone, if they dont expect anything sexual off you and just want to talk, hug kiss whatever then she really does care for your feelings.... does that make sense?
Amy xx
05.09.2006, 16:03 quote
yes Amy that does make sence , and i like your way of thinking
I've had 10 relationships in the past, i;ve been single now for 3 yrs , but i know i will find someone to share me with , just gotta find her!!!
25.09.2006, 19:01 quote
real passionate meaningful love is hard for anyone to find i think - gay or straight... these days everyone has issues and baggage - and everyone gets hurt, everyone gets their heart broken at some time im sure - its a part of life... i think youve just got to put yourself out there and meet people and have fun - until you find that person you really connect with, you kinda have to let go and not take it all so seriously or it will depress you... i dont do one night stands either and thats not what im talking about... its just for me ive only ever found someone special when im not looking for them...
13.10.2006, 09:01 quote
i dont believe in real love or none of us wouid be on here we wouid all be happy i think we are all searching for that something special now that is real just very hard to find and then hold on to please someone inspire me and change my down thoughts
10.11.2006, 16:24 quote
| eyes2die4 wrote: |
| I find the whole emotional game so hard, I don't do one night stands, have a big heart , and genuienly treat women with 100% respect. Yet i seem to get nothing like what i have to offer, in return!! I just crave for love and my loneliness eats away @ me .Yet i don't want any random woman to hurt me, yet you have to try before you buy if you like lol . So does anyone know what to look for and what expectations i should have |
You sound quite similar to my ex . . . She gave me 100%, treated me brilliantly etc and thankfully, we're still good friends today. The only thing I would say (and no, I'm not saying this is you!) is that she sometimes seemed a bit in love with the idea of love. She made it clear from the start that she was looking for something serious and wanted to settle down with her soulmate as soon as possible. I wasn't quite sure what I wanted, but later realised that I wasn't ready for that level of commitment - plus, we were quite different in terms of what we wanted from our lives. To her, relationships come first whereas I tend to give my work and ambitions higher priority. This led to her feeling as if she was second best and understandably, that led to resentment.
I'm probably gabbling on, but it's an interesting question and something I've been giving some thought to in light of my recent break-up . . . I do want to find true love eventually, but not in the here and now.
10.11.2006, 23:38 quote
i do believe in love and have been in love 3 times...
but i also believe that there are diff types of love, depending on what you both need at the time.. like companionship love etc...
im not looking for the love at the moment as i would be looking forever, as sometimes you find love in the strangest places.. and everytime ive been in love.. i didnt expect it to happen...
so i guess the best thing is to go on about life and if it happens then wicked...
11.11.2006, 01:43 quote
it's crazi, im sat here rite now wonderin if i should end my 5 n arf yr relationship with my soulmate. 2 me she's everythin ive ever dremt ov yet since ma lil lady got her dream career i feel her priority's have changed. i love her 2 bits i love all her bad habbits
She doesn't wana lose me i know but y do i feel she just love's the home life n regular nookie? Relationships r weird, if im not in love then love deffinately don't exist 2 me. im told 1 thing then told 2 accept the other way???
11.11.2006, 11:23 quote
| birdwatcher wrote: |
| it's crazi, im sat here rite now wonderin if i should end my 5 n arf yr relationship with my soulmate. 2 me she's everythin ive ever dremt ov yet since ma lil lady got her dream career i feel her priority's have changed. i love her 2 bits i love all her bad habbits She doesn't wana lose me i know but y do i feel she just love's the home life n regular nookie? Relationships r weird, if im not in love then love deffinately don't exist 2 me. im told 1 thing then told 2 accept the other way??? |
not good chick..
i think you are still in love with each other but your stuck in a rut, which happens alot in long term relationships
i would suggest that you be spontanous... try something diff, and no excuses from either of you... break from the norm..
hopefully that helps..
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