The obsession most people seem to have with love is pathetic. I dont see it as an important part of a relationship, im actually looking for a loving relationship that doesnt include love at all but its impossible even though im loving, affectionate and im told im good looking. I duno, i just dont understand.

It seems you believe in platonic love.

But love is more than just a way of reproduction.Its also a way of achieving a greater emotional bonding.So its indeed a very important part of a romantic interest.

I agree with Koye.....its not the bee all and end all to a relationship but it is another way of showing your love for your partner, to a deeper, more personal level. It is the joining of 2 people, and when 2 become 1 if you like.

Good luck in finding a partner that doesn't want a sexual relationship.....IMO they're just friends.

Well said people above me.
My last relationship failed because we could not forfil each others needs. In or out of bed, but it all came down to communication and commitment.
Telling (white) lies is not good because they become (black and white) bigger one's.

love was not top, of the to do list, but does have a part to play.

I wouldnt say love was everything in a relationship but it does have its part.