Hi Everyone..Im quite new to the Forum discusion boards!
But having been reading through them , there seems to be a comon Q about dating Bi & les !!
I think the bigest problem is a lot of Bi women would like there male partners to be there ( during love making ) ... Now a lot of Lesbians dis-trust most male figures & certainly wouldnt like to make love with a big hairy male stood watching , photographing or worse Masturbating !!!!!

I can understand both ways where the Bi lady wants her partner included..BUT ..lesbians Dont!! Maybe this is why lesbians dont very often date Bi women!!

Holly x

well.... as a bi woman i would never make my partner do anything that he/she felt uncomfortable with. as for lesbians not wanting to date bi women for this reason... i would agree. but not every bi woman is looking for a threesome lol.

infact...any kinda love would do me lately! born again virgin here!!

No almostperfect...your right...not every Bi-girl wants a 3some!!!
It just sometimes send a shudder up my spine sometimes!!! lol

holly

HI there
just reading you views
I cant speak for everyone but im Bi and I wouldnt want a male partner watching joining in or anything else.
I keep things separate.
Being with a girl is very diffrent than a man, both sensual in there own way
and not something that i feel should be shared with the other

xxx

hmm well i think many lesbians think that if they date a bi woman they will eventually want a male. i mean like with me its the paranoia and cheating and i think there is more jelousy in lesbians about men.
thing is ive found that even lesbians cheat on their partner too so not everyone is an angel. there shouldnt be any steriotyping but sometimes it just gets wired into peoples minds.

I can see what you're all saying but I am married with two kids and as much as I want to be with a female sexually I couldn't do it behind my husband's back. I didn't accept that I was bisexual until after I got married and although I love my husband to bits I can't help but want to be with a female sometimes. If straight couples can do wife swapping etc, then why shouldn't bisexual women be able to be with another female. And no, all men are not big hairy perverts who want to film and/or take pictures, some of them just want to be around when their bi partners are with someone of the same love, otherwise it would, in my opinion, be cheating, as partnerships are all about openness and honesty. How can you have that if your partner isn't around at the time?

I think it take a very understanding lesbian to be happy having love with a Bi female & her husband/bf be there. For lesbians blokes are not involved in any sort of way in love.

hi all! Im very "bi-curious" and im finding that alot of bi girls are looking for a 3rd. I have a bf but id like 2 keep things seperate. Being bi to me means likes both sexes, but maybe there should be a new pigeon holed name covering bi that wants a 3rd and just plain and simple bi! X

I would never have love in front of anyone else, or with more than one person. I am bi at the moment but I think I probably am gay.

Being bi myself...

When I date I woman I consider myself a lesbian.

When I date a guy I am straight.

I know this may sound messed up but it's how I am.

While I'm with a woman my attraction to men is turned off and it is out of the question to bring a man into the bedroom for any reason. When I'm with her it's just her and I.

I sincerely hope other bisexual women haven't messed up the dating scene for bisexual women like myself cause I think it has where I am.

Whenever I tell a woman I've met in person and am interested in that I'm bi, I get that.."oooohhh" sigh.

I can help being attracted to men just as much as I can help being attracted to women... I can't.

I agree. It is off putting when bi females want their husband/partner involved. love should be between two people, and two people only, believe me it gets so messy when there are more than two people involved. Any ladies out there looking for some girly fun, no husbands or bf's involved, then send me a message!

Anyone watching is a majour turn off. love with either gender is a personal thing not a public showcase but that's just my opinion.

I'm bi, least I think but I go through phases of wanting males but for the most part its females.