Hello everyone


I am a post op M-F Trans-sexaul, who is looking for a mate. Lover partner or even just a friend

It's been a while since I have been with anyone special
I have a had a few weird offers (from guys mainly) and I can do with out them.

It is very difficult being a Ts who wants to find a girlfriend.
sex is ok with a man but it's nothing like the real thing as I am sure all lesbians would agree.

If you think you could help find me a loving partner or want to know more about me.
then please come and talk to me.
I need all the help I can find
I have recently been hurt because I fell for a woman who decided that I was not woman enough for her
(not real in her words)

Thats why I started this off telling you I am a POST OP TRANS-SEXAUL

So come on all you lovely people come and talk to me

Suzzy

Ahhh Suzzyselit,

It's a common problem with post-op TS women.

My advice? Most post-op women don't advertise thier TS roots and just advertise as women.

One of my ex's didn't tell me about her TS roots until just before we went to bed for the first time. But, we'd established enough of a relationship by then that i was willing it give it a go...for three years.

Hi and thanks for the advise.
But I can say that from experience I don't agree with you.

I have met and lost some beautifull ladies and Friends because I had not told them about myself.
This caused lot of pain and I hurt one person very much.
which I regret to this day and you can never make that better or undo that.

I am not saying that telling everyone about myself is right or wrong
But If I am up front and Honest about myself to start with
No One can say that they never knew or they were used and misslead.

Being Honest with someone you hope to care about and build a relationship with I feel is very important.

Yes I get a few creep's contact me, all TS's get that sort of thing
(at least a few other Ts's I know have had the same problem) but that's life.

It takes someone Very Very Special to love a person like me or anyone that does not fit into the
Male / Female / Gay / lesbian genders or what ever else a person chooses to be.

I feel that as you understand and you have replied, then your a far better person, than someone who judges me before they know me or takes the time to get to know me.

I am not an Allien although my daughter calls me E.T. But she does add that she thinks I am out of this world?
(I am stiil not sure which way to take that?)

I like meeting people and somewhere out there is a special person that hopefully will come along and just say hello

thank you for your responce
Suzzy xxx

hi suzzy im sure i was talking to you in another thread...?

Hiya

Firstly, I agree with you suzzy. Im post op, have been for 3 yrs and definitely think it better to be honest up front. Not only cos the truth always outs but mainly cos how can a relationship even start to flourish without honesty.

Sadly tho I must report that I've been a member of this site since 2004 and have never met anyone from here. Its just full of fakes or ppl looking pic swop, cam sex or phone sex.

I hear you ask............why am I still here?

Well, Im currently single and live in hope. I spread my net wide and so far have had 1 girlfriend whom I met on another site.

Anyhoo, I wish you all the best for the future.

Mara xx

it's good to let them know