Lesbians >> Ladies, 'Condom or flesh...'?

19.02.2009, 17:26 quote

bennyice

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bennyice wrote:

I don't mean the lady wearing the condom...I mean the man- what wld be the lady's reaction if I decide to put on a rubber before love. will she see me as weakling or as a man in control. I just want to know coz i once met a gal who said Men who ask that before love are not brave enough. So, how many women share this opinion with her.

Brave enough.....? For What, to risk getting AIDS or something nearly as dreadful or her getting an unplanned pregnancy at best?
Good grief, I hope you showed that 'lady' the door!

Personally, I would expect to discuss such matters well before that stage in proceedings.
I agree with everyone else, its about respecting one another and playing safe.

I was with a guy for 5 yrs, he'd had a vasectomy and I've been sterilised, so we didnt 'need' protection......til he cheated on me with a woman who was cheating on her heroin addict Hep C boyfriend, and also found out my fella was bi......hhhhmmmm, WHEN is it safe to trust??!!
(thankfully my aids test and all the other nasty tests I had were negative after that, but it scared me witless!)
Any woman who you don't know well or trust implicitly with her sexual history nor want a baby with her, if she tries to put you down for using protection......Run for the hills!!!!! Laughing

you are one lucky gal!

19.02.2009, 17:30 quote

fireinmyheart

Joined: 01 Oct 2008 Posts: 1598 Location: United Kingdom, England, Buckinghamshire

bennyice wrote:

when I was younger, putting on a rubber used to be the hardest thing for me coz i needed to feel the flesh upon my flesh. Now i feel more mature about the whole condom issue. I think if i can decide to wear a cd it goes a long way to show how descipline i am.

I thought we are taught about condoms, pregnancy, sexual disease, etc, from school age... Rolling Eyes

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19.02.2009, 18:10 quote

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fireinmyheart wrote:

bennyice wrote:

when I was younger, putting on a rubber used to be the hardest thing for me coz i needed to feel the flesh upon my flesh. Now i feel more mature about the whole condom issue. I think if i can decide to wear a cd it goes a long way to show how descipline i am.

I thought we are taught about condoms, pregnancy, sexual disease, etc, from school age... Rolling Eyes

Trouble is, once there's too much alcohol and drugs, which let's be honest, is a way of life for many young people......ALL the learning goes out of the window!

20.02.2009, 01:16 quote

bennyice

fireinmyheart wrote:

bennyice wrote:

when I was younger, putting on a rubber used to be the hardest thing for me coz i needed to feel the flesh upon my flesh. Now i feel more mature about the whole condom issue. I think if i can decide to wear a cd it goes a long way to show how descipline i am.

I thought we are taught about condoms, pregnancy, sexual disease, etc, from school age... Rolling Eyes

we were taught about morals too but how many will say they keep to it. As a matter of fact, there seem to be a calculated attempt by many to go against moral values these days. So, it has nothing to do with wat we were taught. Sometimes the will power to resist the temptation is less than the temptation itself. Imagine a pretty lady like Beyonce comes to you and says, let f**k but we are doing it without a comdom'(in another life of course). What would ur reaction be?

20.02.2009, 11:37 quote

fireinmyheart

Joined: 01 Oct 2008 Posts: 1598 Location: United Kingdom, England, Buckinghamshire

bennyice wrote:

fireinmyheart wrote:

bennyice wrote:

when I was younger, putting on a rubber used to be the hardest thing for me coz i needed to feel the flesh upon my flesh. Now i feel more mature about the whole condom issue. I think if i can decide to wear a cd it goes a long way to show how descipline i am.

I thought we are taught about condoms, pregnancy, sexual disease, etc, from school age... Rolling Eyes

we were taught about morals too but how many will say they keep to it. As a matter of fact, there seem to be a calculated attempt by many to go against moral values these days. So, it has nothing to do with wat we were taught. Sometimes the will power to resist the temptation is less than the temptation itself. Imagine a pretty lady like Beyonce comes to you and says, let f**k but we are doing it without a comdom'(in another life of course). What would ur reaction be?

Hard to say... I've never been with Beyonce...

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20.02.2009, 13:43 quote

bennyice

fireinmyheart wrote:

bennyice wrote:

fireinmyheart wrote:

bennyice wrote:

when I was younger, putting on a rubber used to be the hardest thing for me coz i needed to feel the flesh upon my flesh. Now i feel more mature about the whole condom issue. I think if i can decide to wear a cd it goes a long way to show how descipline i am.

that pretty much answers my question
I thought we are taught about condoms, pregnancy, sexual disease, etc, from school age... Rolling Eyes

we were taught about morals too but how many will say they keep to it. As a matter of fact, there seem to be a calculated attempt by many to go against moral values these days. So, it has nothing to do with wat we were taught. Sometimes the will power to resist the temptation is less than the temptation itself. Imagine a pretty lady like Beyonce comes to you and says, let f**k but we are doing it without a comdom'(in another life of course). What would ur reaction be?

Hard to say... I've never been with Beyonce...

that pretty much answers my question

20.02.2009, 13:44 quote

fireinmyheart

Joined: 01 Oct 2008 Posts: 1598 Location: United Kingdom, England, Buckinghamshire

bennyice wrote:

fireinmyheart wrote:

bennyice wrote:

fireinmyheart wrote:

bennyice wrote:

when I was younger, putting on a rubber used to be the hardest thing for me coz i needed to feel the flesh upon my flesh. Now i feel more mature about the whole condom issue. I think if i can decide to wear a cd it goes a long way to show how descipline i am.

that pretty much answers my question
I thought we are taught about condoms, pregnancy, sexual disease, etc, from school age... Rolling Eyes

we were taught about morals too but how many will say they keep to it. As a matter of fact, there seem to be a calculated attempt by many to go against moral values these days. So, it has nothing to do with wat we were taught. Sometimes the will power to resist the temptation is less than the temptation itself. Imagine a pretty lady like Beyonce comes to you and says, let f**k but we are doing it without a comdom'(in another life of course). What would ur reaction be?

Hard to say... I've never been with Beyonce...

that pretty much answers my question

And we've all answered yours. Wear condoms.
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20.02.2009, 13:44 quote

bennyice

fireinmyheart wrote:

bennyice wrote:

fireinmyheart wrote:

bennyice wrote:

when I was younger, putting on a rubber used to be the hardest thing for me coz i needed to feel the flesh upon my flesh. Now i feel more mature about the whole condom issue. I think if i can decide to wear a cd it goes a long way to show how descipline i am.

that pretty much answers my question
I thought we are taught about condoms, pregnancy, sexual disease, etc, from school age... Rolling Eyes

we were taught about morals too but how many will say they keep to it. As a matter of fact, there seem to be a calculated attempt by many to go against moral values these days. So, it has nothing to do with wat we were taught. Sometimes the will power to resist the temptation is less than the temptation itself. Imagine a pretty lady like Beyonce comes to you and says, let f**k but we are doing it without a comdom'(in another life of course). What would ur reaction be?

Hard to say... I've never been with Beyonce...

that pretty much answers my question

20.02.2009, 13:46 quote

fireinmyheart

Joined: 01 Oct 2008 Posts: 1598 Location: United Kingdom, England, Buckinghamshire

bennyice wrote:

fireinmyheart wrote:

bennyice wrote:

fireinmyheart wrote:

bennyice wrote:

when I was younger, putting on a rubber used to be the hardest thing for me coz i needed to feel the flesh upon my flesh. Now i feel more mature about the whole condom issue. I think if i can decide to wear a cd it goes a long way to show how descipline i am.

that pretty much answers my question
I thought we are taught about condoms, pregnancy, sexual disease, etc, from school age... Rolling Eyes

we were taught about morals too but how many will say they keep to it. As a matter of fact, there seem to be a calculated attempt by many to go against moral values these days. So, it has nothing to do with wat we were taught. Sometimes the will power to resist the temptation is less than the temptation itself. Imagine a pretty lady like Beyonce comes to you and says, let f**k but we are doing it without a comdom'(in another life of course). What would ur reaction be?

Hard to say... I've never been with Beyonce...

that pretty much answers my question

And we've all answered yours. Wear condoms.
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