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17.02.2009, 01:19 quote

bennyice

would you as a lady feel bad if i asked to were a condom before sex?

 

17.02.2009, 09:32 quote

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bennyice wrote:
would you as a lady feel bad if i asked to were a condom before sex?


did you want to put this in the 'Lesbians' thread?
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17.02.2009, 10:46 quote

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bennyice wrote:
would you as a lady feel bad if i asked to were a condom before sex?


Erm do you mean asking a lady to wear a female condom or that you would want to wear a condom before sex?

The chances of catching a STD is very high these days and since infertility is a possible outcome, I'm surprised how many people don't seem to care about protection.

I like a guy to be prepared to wear a condom even though it decreases sensation, it's about respect and caring. It's hard to be sure of anybody's honesty regarding sexual history and if someone isn't prepared to wear a condom, then they're more likely to be a 'risk'.

As an after thought, where does the lesbian bit come into the title of this thread?

 

18.02.2009, 01:27 quote

bennyice

I don't mean the lady wearing the condom...I mean the man- what wld be the lady's reaction if I decide to put on a rubber before sex. will she see me as weakling or as a man in control. I just want to know coz i once met a gal who said Men who ask that before sex are not brave enough. So, how many women share this opinion with her.

 

18.02.2009, 02:10 quote

bennyice

and i didn't mean the topic to be in the lesbian thread but if I can get reasonable opinion then i guess it's cool.

 

18.02.2009, 08:16 quote

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lol that rubber is strapped on before even i take my clothes off ..its also a massive turn off if a girl im not used to asks me to dip without a johnny
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18.02.2009, 08:20 quote

oakman

Safety first.

 

18.02.2009, 10:23 quote

koyelmitra

better stay safe rather than mourning later for a nasty HPV infection or may be something worse. Rolling Eyes

 

18.02.2009, 10:34 quote

bennyice

still need more opinions

 

18.02.2009, 12:21 quote

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bennyice wrote:
still need more opinions


I think a guy who isn't prepared to wear a condom doesn't have enough 'caring' or 'intelligence' in his personality for me to be interested in him........ STDs are bad enough, but bringing a child into the world without some serious thinking behind it is just irresponsible.

Obviously, there are many other issues around this subject as it may be there are different ideas for long term relationships and casual flings, morning after pills, abortion, child support........

 

18.02.2009, 22:08 quote

rocketgirl

bennyice wrote:
I don't mean the lady wearing the condom...I mean the man- what wld be the lady's reaction if I decide to put on a rubber before sex. will she see me as weakling or as a man in control. I just want to know coz i once met a gal who said Men who ask that before sex are not brave enough. So, how many women share this opinion with her.


Brave enough.....? For What, to risk getting AIDS or something nearly as dreadful or her getting an unplanned pregnancy at best?
Good grief, I hope you showed that 'lady' the door!

Personally, I would expect to discuss such matters well before that stage in proceedings.
I agree with everyone else, its about respecting one another and playing safe.

I was with a guy for 5 yrs, he'd had a vasectomy and I've been sterilised, so we didnt 'need' protection......til he cheated on me with a woman who was cheating on her heroin addict Hep C boyfriend, and also found out my fella was bi......hhhhmmmm, WHEN is it safe to trust??!!
(thankfully my aids test and all the other nasty tests I had were negative after that, but it scared me witless!)
Any woman who you don't know well or trust implicitly with her sexual history nor want a baby with her, if she tries to put you down for using protection......Run for the hills!!!!! Laughing

 

18.02.2009, 22:18 quote

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I think condoms should definately be worn when starting out with someone, and I've never thought the woman would mind...
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18.02.2009, 22:27 quote

choochi0
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That woman is stupid.

Condoms please.
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18.02.2009, 23:11 quote

sianannagins112

one word for that woman - riddled.

not that you cant guess my reply, but condom definitely.

 

18.02.2009, 23:30 quote

bennyice

when I was younger, putting on a rubber used to be the hardest thing for me coz i needed to feel the flesh upon my flesh. Now i feel more mature about the whole condom issue. I think if i can decide to wear a cd it goes a long way to show how descipline i am.

 
 
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