i think cam is the only way to see who you are talking to. i was on another site and a girl sent me pics via email, but there was something suspicious in the way she chatted in messages, so i asked for her phone number so we could chat properly over the phone...funny i never heard from her again.

If people send photos others could use them and pretend to be that person. That's why i ask for a phone number. Not fool proof, but it's better than just a pic.

maybe some women want to keep their sexual enjoyments private and sometimes cams should be saved until you know someones genuine!!! x