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29.07.2006, 06:16 quote

Anonymous

The website is supposed to stay free - but would you mind to pay a small fee in order to be verified as a female if it is only 1 or 5 pounds (depending on the credit card charges). This way the credit card details could be checked to make sure it is a female person. Of course, in theory, someone could pay with someone else's credit card - but it would make it a lot harder and additionally it would be a crime to do so.

What are your thoughts?

Or what you prefer a telephone check? But I guess most people would be too shy...

 

29.07.2006, 09:07 quote

Anonymous

a lot of people dont have credit cards. i didn't have one until a couple of months ago. and it's not really a credit card it's a debit card. still, there are a lot who dont have anything.

one thing i always do when i add someone to msn is turn my cam on for a couple mins just so they know i am me.

i think perhaps if there was a tesitmonials part where people could verify you are who you say you are...? although that would be as easy to get around as the credit card.

i dont think there is a fullproof way to make sure you know exactly who you are talking to. and trust is sometimes stretched to the max on the net.

 

29.07.2006, 21:47 quote

amandaraven
amandaraven Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, Wales, Mid Glamorgan
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cam on cam always helps

 

10.08.2006, 12:40 quote

NotSoAngelic
NotSoAngelic Joined: 07 Aug 2006 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, Buckinghamshire
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i think we should each take pictures with ourselves holding a sign with our screen name on. make sure it is hand written and easy to read, it is very hard to try and fake handwritten signs on photoshop or something. i will do mine now!

Si x

 

11.08.2006, 10:46 quote

Maxulla
Joined: 27 Oct 2005 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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I agree with the camera idea.

Most of us have have webcams now and it takes two seconds to flick it on and see who you are talking to.

 

03.09.2006, 08:17 quote

dawnlincoln
dawnlincoln Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 1 Location: United Kingdom, England, Lincolnshire
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cam on cam sounds good

 

29.01.2007, 16:28 quote

Anonymous

I agree with the sign thing. I don't have a credit card and my dad forbade me to chat with web cam.

 

15.03.2007, 19:05 quote

Anonymous

it's a nightmare! when i chat to someone i like to know that i'm chatting to a girl before i send sexy pics etc but when i ask they say they feel too pressured and leave. so what am i supposed to do, i don't want to send my pics to just anyone! x x x

 

15.03.2007, 19:18 quote

Anonymous

GorgeGal7 wrote:
it's a nightmare! when i chat to someone i like to know that i'm chatting to a girl before i send sexy pics etc but when i ask they say they feel too pressured and leave. so what am i supposed to do, i don't want to send my pics to just anyone! x x x

just send normal pics...
without a pic up they could be thinking the same about you

 

16.03.2007, 10:43 quote

Anonymous

i would be quite happy to send someone a pic or something to show i am who i say i am, i just don't understand why some women aren't x x x

 

27.06.2007, 19:27 quote

Anonymous

I agree it's hard to decide who's fake or not these days, just registered on this site and even saying I'm lesbian and bi, every guy thinks its his right to browse my profile, at least 37 of them so far and only 12 girls have seen me. thats not fair cant we just ban guys from visiting my profile?

 

13.07.2007, 14:44 quote

stickysandra
stickysandra Joined: 12 Jul 2007 Posts: 1 Location: United Kingdom, England, Northumberland
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All the suggestions are good but not everyone can have a cam and photo id is so easy to fake. Love Sandii XX

 

20.07.2007, 21:23 quote

FITLIKE36
Joined: 19 Jul 2007 Posts: 1
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I used to think (on other sites) that cam on cam was a great idea - until I found out that one woman had her husband and his 2 mates 'off camera' getting off on what I thought was a genuinely private cam chat. Ewkkk. Embarassed

 

30.09.2007, 21:36 quote

Anonymous

louiseuk -> it's not our fault; as if we "Browse Pictures" it shows all women despite their sexual preference. It even shows the ones registered on Girlsweb. Confused

Although, I'm baffled as to why men have been checking out my profile...

 

08.02.2008, 08:57 quote

robi240877
Joined: 07 Feb 2008 Posts: 2 Location: France, Haute-Vienne, Saint-Léonard-de-Noblat
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dawnlincoln wrote:
cam on cam sounds good


slt

 
 
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