Hey girlies...
A lot of times I seem to get ignored in gay clubs.. I dont think Im that ugly.. so would anyone have any ideas as to why this happens?. Maybe I look too straight???? your thougths appreciated xxxx

i ken what you mean, alot of people that see me dont think im gay, it might be the way i carry myself or my hair but im not sure.lol. I mean ive been gays for quite a few years now.

laura

i dont know about u guys but i still find it hard to pick the straight women from the bi/gay ones.

quite frustrating and sometimes embarrassing lmao

There is no way to look more like a lesbian/bi women, just like it is hard to tell the difference who is a hetro women!
It's embarrassing to ask a women if she is, but at the end of the day, in clubs, sometimes that is the only way to tell!

TELL ME ABOUT IT! It's so annoying when you been checking someone out all night thinkin their gay or bi, n then they turn out to be str8! I wish there was some sort of obvious sign as to whos what!...Everyone should wear a badge in a club so u dnt end up makin a fool of urself lol

xxx

i reckon i have asolution for peopel in gay clubs, we should wear funky bracelets which colour indicate whether were gay bi straight or afriend whos with his or her gay mates.
we could have pink for gay, purple for bi and green for straight.

who knows it could catch on, would cetainly be less confusing. i havnt been out clubbing for ages, i seen to spend most of my time on teh internet searching foir "the one". havnt found her yet but the day i do, shell be treated like a princess.

I have cut my hair a lot shorter now than in my picture and as soon as I did it I got a compliment off a gay woman where I worked. I think a lot of gay women think if you haven't got short hair and you don't wear mens clothes your not comfortable with your sexuality.

wellu all look gorgeous

All you girl are really good looking and if i was in a club i would come up to you because all of you are dammn sexy and if women dont come up to you that is there lost not your that means more for me lol

dont worry aboyt other people girls you have it going on xx

i feel your pain! do i look totally straight? i always get straight guys hitting on me at clubs, i used to have my hair short about 2 years ago, everyone said i looked like a lesbian (at that time i was the only one who knew i was), maybe i should get it cut short again... i suppose i am a bit of a femme though, we really do need a sort of signal in the lesbian world, like a word or a bracelet like you said...

Si x

i get the same as the post above. all the men come onto me but no ladies ha. i also get told i look straight i dont see why..to look like a lesbian you have to cut your hair short and wear mens clothes. i dont want to at the end of the day look like man. :/

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ergh i duno if that post made sense ha. sorry if it didnt.

That is a bloody good idea Kitten but how would some one start the trend!!!!
It could be introduced at the pride marches!

if they're in a gay club surely theyre fair game - i mean if theyre straight and they're in a gay club then its their problem, theyv got to expect that! - and being shot down is a part of it all - i mean its sucks sure and it can be embarrassing but in the end its bound to happen to most of us at some point, i dont think we need bracelets - just self esteem... confidence is a turn on!