im single,have been for 3yrs and rarely get chatted up,am i really that bad?and im such a nice person...

As you get older, people just seem to assume that you're already snapped up and not single so is probably nothing to do with how you look, but it's still worth making the most of what you have.

It could be you've not got back to flirting, or even noticing when somebody is checking you out as I think many people tend to lose that side of themselves whilst in a relationship, they're used to displaying a 'not available' way about themselves.

Smile, give eye contact and look long enough to notice a response, practice on the postman, shop keeper, bus driver whoever 'til you recapture your vibrancy and openess for dating. If you're doing this already just be patient, I'm sure others will add some good tips here. Good luck

Also, as far as this site is concerned, try filling out your profile a bit more, especially a description that says both what you like and what you're like.

true as u grow up in age u dont need to get back to a yonger one to be attractive, u dont need a 20 years old hair style when u r 40 and so on...

nothing wrong with ur look, u look lovely, just dont try to change it by running away from it.

be who u r, treat ur self according to ur age, and love knows no limit no age..

and yaaa keep smiling