Just a thought, and if you arnt busy God, is it possible to turn the whole thing round the wrong way and search for who is looking for me.

I was thinking along the lines of adding some basic criteria of potential partners that you would look for (for example, non smokers, female, about 10' tall, with green hair, aged between 26 and 34.. (am I being too picky?)) and store this.

Who is looking for me function could search through these criteria to show the people whose search criteria match your own profile and return the results. Then I can write to just the people who would be interested in my profile. Just a thought.

Actually thinking about it, that might be a huge amount of work but it could be good.