I think the 'Flirtbox Dates & Meetups' should be just for meets only, and the meets should be open to all members of flirtbox and not 'mates' or cliques, and this should be enforced by the mods. If people want meets for their mates, the meets should be advertised elsewhere.

There is a dating forum, and anything to do with dates and dating should be on there.


nb:
We all know the difference between a 'date' and a 'meet'.