I think the 'Flirtbox Dates & Meetups' should be just for meets only, and the meets should be open to all members of flirtbox and not 'mates' or cliques, and this should be enforced by the mods. If people want meets for their mates, the meets should be advertised elsewhere.

There is a dating forum, and anything to do with dates and dating should be on there.


nb:
We all know the difference between a 'date' and a 'meet'.

Shazzam... and the pencil is goooooooooooone! Goodbye cruel world!!!!!!!!!!! Enjoy.

S.

yeah but to be honest mate, i think id consider the first time i met someone a "meet".

I'm all for dating, but in my opinion, no matter how long i'v been talking to someone online, i really think i'd be unable to really know if i wanted to date them until i'v met them.

Anyway, i think meets are cool, (thats meets not meats!!! go veggie!!!) , i think i'd find myself more relaxed in a meet first, before i called it a "date".

Theres things about a person, the way they act, treat people, and really view the world, that you cant always see online, someone may even be acting a little.

Each has their way i suppose