So I'm on a profile of a girl who is looking for men and women, I click on the button to send her a message, and spend a good ten minutes crafting the perfectly-worded email to try to woo her. When I click the send button, it tells me that she only wants to be contacted by women.

Gee, thanks. You think the site could let me know before I spend the time writing the message, say, when I click the "Send Message" button on her profile? Just a thought.

- Alex