when i was setting up my profile i didnt come across a link that said set as your profile picture.

so how do you set a profile picture?

If you go into manage pics, whatever pic is at #1 will be you main profile pic, if you have more than one just drag the one you want to the 1st position then save at bottom of page, hope that has helped...

i have done what you said however i still cant see the pic on my profile, so whats wrong with it?

Try clicking the 'flirtbox.net' button underneath the photo you want displayed.