I can't seem to add an avatar on the forums. I was wondering if there was a minimum number of posts needed before you could use an avatar. If not could someone please be kind enough to help me out?

Your avatar on the forum would be your photo on the dating site. if you havent uploaded a photo of yourself on the dating site then you wont have an avatar on here. hope that helps.

hmm I have 3 pictures on the main site. Does it happen automatically or should i do something to use those pictureas.

You need to click on the 'flirtbox.net' button under the photo you want to use on the forum as an avatar

That did the trick, thanks very much.