Hi all...Hope you can help me out here. I am a Lesbian who has been seeking a relationship for a while now but being new to a specialist site like 'Girlsweb' I am subject to all sorts of 'come on ' comments from others....In your experiences, how can I tell honest and truthful Lesbians from the sad men who appear to be the pits, and try to emulate us....I dont want to give my phone number online because of dickheads..and it scares me to think men are doing all these chatting up techniques....Is there anything I can ask them that would suss them out straight away as a faker...your help would be appreciated.

Sorry to hear your problems.
Only a few good ways..
get their number and ring them,saying your from the telephone company...
webcam's are always good

Sorry you are having this trouble, but unless you want to resort to the checking up on people my mate above me suggests, nobody here is likely to know. We don't get many lesbians use the forums, which is a shame really.
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A lesbian only likes women right!!

Well that makes us lesbians dude...

The problem your having is the same problem everyone has with anonymity on the internet. Then again I have been known to flirt with gay guys to get free drinks and stuff so I guess it can happen in real life too. I don't think there is a good answer for your problem, sorry.

i dont trust anyone till ive seen them on webcam...... however, a thought that might cheer you up. console yourself in the fact that these sad men who pretend to be lesbians will one day chat up other sad men who are pretending to be lesbians, and they will both be sat there jerking off their tiny penis's thinking that the other person is a real woman

this is happening also with men chating up "girls"....in fact, they are gay guys trying to get some straight men on the webcam.....
so, is not only into the lesbian "department"
u just have to ask for webcam. no webcam,no chat.......
"c2c" is the solution if u want to develope something genuine from both sides....

I think you can tell by the photo often, like i think fakers have photos which look like modeling...rather then casual photos.

What grips my shit on this site...
1. Lesbians can post half naked pictures.
2. Real women can't
3. Men can't
4.......


Fill the rest in yourself.
Get real moderaters/The man who runs this site.

I think that if you if you are attracted to them, and they are willing to give you their number...then you should call them with your number blocked and find out.
There are some nice, genuine girls out there who would love to get to know you-I'm sure of that.

I've met some fakers on girlsweb, and one beautiful woman in particular who I'm almost positive isn't...but I think she's worried that I am so won't take it further. It's worth the risk if you are both wanting a r/ship...you never know what you could be missing out on.

Kisses xx