I agree with the Darkhorse but I will add that no its nothing to do with your body shape Pinkpolo, yes am sure there are loads of nice decent guys out there, but alas I just wonder if you're preferences to what you're looking for "filter out" the nice guys and all thats your left with are the guys that you're obviously meeting at the moment.

Get out there and enjoy life and dont look for any specifics I'm sure you will find Mr Right just dont look too hard and you might be pleasantly surprised when he knocks on your door

We often get this topic. There are plenty of nice guys out here.

But women seem to keep going out with arseholes..

funny that.

I think though DH the difference is that boys are made of slugs and snails and puppy dog tails and so are supposed to be tougher than the girls made of sugar and spice and all things nice need more supporting.

In honesty the two main guys I remember putting something similar were Stoney who got positive posts from everyone initially and then his clone whose names I forget. One difference being that they were both much older than this OP and that they went on and on and on about it. This in part explains why guys get squished as noone wants another Stoney.

Because theres no such thing

We're all complete bastards

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I couldnt be bothered reading to the end of the postings on that subject, as i only got as far as Dark Horse's post and his blunt rantings.

It has to be said i totally agree with him. I dont mean to be rude or anything, but come on! Why cant you find a nice guy? One answer is because you are looking. It has been said that women looking for a relationship emit a certain amount of desperation, which tends to put guys off. If you are totally cool, calm collected and happy with everything the way it is, and dont really care about meeting men, then you emit some sort of confident aura, and this attracts guys.

Anyway, tell me something, do you really want a nice guy?

Its a little known fact that women dont want nice guys! Sorry ladies, but you have to admit that to a degree this is totally true. I went out with a man for a year who did exactly what i wanted when i wanted and i got so bored it was untrue. When i have a man that is a little firmer with me, and can keep me on my toes, then i am totally smitten by him, and i love it.

I know everyone is different, and like different things, but get out there and enjoy yourself. Your only young (you look it from your picture) so dont worry about settling down and have the time of your life! Mr Right will pop up when you least expect him to...!