Y cant I find a nice decent bloke is it because of my body shape or am i that terrible

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You look lovely as you are...welcome pinkpolo121...if guys dont like you the way you are then they're not worth bothering with
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you look fantastic as you are babes! if i was anywhere near you id ask u out in a second! xx

Hey Pinkpolo121.
Im having the same problem. I cant find a nice bloke either. They all start off nice but in the end they prove themselves to be horrible users. I know how you feel. I end up questioning myself - whats wrong with me that i only attract the bad ones. Just got to try and view it that its something wrong with them - not you. Its difficult but its the only way to think about it. You cant afford to loose your self esteem - they are not worth it!!

Nice Guys !!!! .......... i am sure there are plenty out there somewhere I would just say one thing 'inner confidence'. I would like to presume you are a confident person on the outside but not on the inside ??? As an overweight girl myself, i use to blame my size for alot of things ........ at the end of the day i am me ........ and if guys dont like it, then it's there loss ....... those feelings come with age though i am sure ....... feeling more secure in yourself, will make you more attractive to others, just my take on things ........

There are nice guys out there, you could be looking fur one right before your eyes and never see them.
They might be shy, maybe standoffish a bit; but they are there.
Its when you dont look for them that they show up easily.
My grandmother told me "don't look for your sidnificant other or soulmate, they will be there when you don't look for them." But you will know immediately when they are near."

Thats a good question. Let me know when you find it out.

There are a few out there, the hardest part is finding them & when you do is knowing how to keep them
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Why can't I find a nice girl?
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You have no worries ok, there are lots of cool guys out there for you xxxx

You look absolutely fantastic.
I think you will find that it is todays generation or summat like that; they seem to be embarrassed to turn up for a date with a big bunch of flowers for the lady; don't like to book a table at a very nice restaurant for a date - todays fella likes to go to a noisy pub so he can't hear you talk and play darts with his mates (presumably hoping to win your heart by winning at darts )

Mr nice guy is out there, probably hoping to find you so don't worry just yet .. as some of the others have said, he'll find you when you're not looking.

thank you for ur advise

Yeah...if you find a nice guy..

See if he has any nice friends/brothers and send them my way

Anyway.
I'm pretty sure there's nothing wrong with you.
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Confidence - Wear it like make up.

Um, just to be contrary, why is it that if a guy starts a thread similar to this he gets told to pull himself together and stop attention-seeking (as has happened quite a few times over the past year, “oh woe is me”, “I’m so ugly, I can’t get a date”, snivel snivel……) , but when a girl asks this kind of question, she gets an ego-boost?

To the OP, I don’t know you, nor your circumstances, so have no idea why you can’t find a ‘nice guy’. By the same token, no-one else here knows your circumstances either (unless they have been messaging you off-forum)……

Ooops, sorry, the (middle-aged and blunt) point was, only you know why you can’t find a ‘nice guy’; look within, do some exploration, and decide for yourself; and make changes where necessary (either to yourself or to the people you attract). You’re 18, go out and enjoy your life, have fun – ‘nice guy’ (or ‘nice girl’) will turn up when, and if, they’re meant to…..