I'm new to this online dating thing. Think I have gone about it the wrong way. I've jumped in asking gals out to the cinema in first message, how should I go about it? Msn first?

Hi & welcome tallncute to the forums...I would say message a few times first & see how it goes then if you feel you click move on to msn, maybe move on to text & later if all goes well speak on the phone, you will know when the time is right...just take it slowly & dont rush into anything......also come on to the forums as its a great way to meet peeps & make friends.

Have fun xx

Thanks for the info. Well thats about 20 write offs then! *@#!

BTW in my opinion cinema isn't a very good first date, its difficult to talk and get to know a person in dark and quiet cinema...
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Hi & Welcome ........ Just be yourself, if your the forward type, no messing type of guy, then thats good in my book, but maybe not on the first message.......

Not to put a downer on things though, if you get chatting to someone, dont always believe what that have to say ....... it is a dating site after all and if there not willing to meet you after chatting for a few weeks ........ then they probably never will .....

Have fun and like Freda said the forums are mostly full of nice genuine people ...... x

cheers for the input people!