Someone forgot to write a book on picking up women in the street.

What on earth do you do when your single and you dont have every thing that everyone else has like a drivers license or a mobile or a job or anything else of that nature

Why is it so differcult to get noticed by women? Why has it got to be the guys responsibility to go out of his way to pickup women? Come on, thats too much pressure for someone like me.

Yikes did you know talking to yourself is the first sign of madness??? lol lol
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Ah yes but there is a point in there some people do have high opinions of themselves and unreasonable expectations!!!!!! ill agree about most of the points but there again does it pay to be modest?
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

While i realise what im about to say will probably get me banned but it needs to be said....

Boo effin hoo i cant find a man i cant find a woman. For gods sake there is more to life than a relationship..... Yes life can be lonely but there is so much out there to occupy yourselves and so much fun to be had.

How can people expect someone to be interested in them when they arent even interested in themselves. It may sound arrogant but i love my life n i love who i am.... people see that and are interested in me because of it. If i spent my life thinking "this is shit i aint worth a dime" no one would want to talk to me n i wouldnt expect them to cos im boring n miserable. Simple thing is be happy with yourself n others around you will be interested in you.

A lot of people say yeah but i dont have any confidence. Well effin get some. It isnt hard, really it isnt. Find what you like, find what makes u feel good about yourself n keep doin it untill you are confident enough to do anything. If that doesnt work find something you would never ever do and do it. Its amazing how much respect you have for yourself after you achieve something you thought you never would and as ive said a few times it will show and people will react positively to that.

I honestly hope people will read this and take something out of it, im not just having a rant, it honestly pisses me off to see so many amazing people doubting themselves all the time, its a vicous circle and is hard to get out of but if you do not try there is honestly no hope for you... I started a happy thread to try n get people to look on the bright side but it ust hasnt seemed to take off. WHY?????? is everyone that pissed off with themselves that they cant say one good thing that hass happened to them, Do you like being miserable, is it easier than trying to be happy?? Ive gone through imense amounts of shite in my life and at times ive wanted to curl up in a ball n block the world out, but i realised that aint doin me any good n it aint helpin anyone around me so FFS cheer up sort urslef out and accept that you will meet someone you will be happy and you will get what you want!!!!!!!!

Right thats all for now, if everyone hasnt bitched about my essay n takes something from it i will be back to add as much sparkle to peoples lives as i can!!!!!!!!!

There is a rule.

If you pay more attention to enjoying life, succeeding in goals. You immediately stop thinking about wanting a relationship. People will sense that in you, and notice that you're not some "desperate, lonely weirdo" and immediately - you become more attractive.

If you complain about how women never chat to you, ironically - they'll never chat to you. Stop complaining is a start.

"You'll never find something if you don't stop looking"

also men and women are like buses.... you can spend all day waiting for one and when you're about to give up and go home two or three pull up!! lmfao.

i agree with jimney on this one.... there is so much more to life than the opposite sex. there's good company, good times, good friends, your home, your job, your family, your dreams and ambitions, and your memories. now for someone to say oh life is crap cos i dont have a bf/gf just annoys me. a partner might complete your life....but isn't it full enough already without whingeing that you have no bf?

hint....get a fkbuddy lmaoooo

my good news for the day.... i'm going out with my mates tonight. can't wait. gonna leave a trail of destruction behind me. **has her eye on a particular plant outside a particular hotel that she may or may not convince to accompany her home this evening** hehe

thats spooky

well mate the culture in our country dictate unspoken social behaviours one of them is this pick up by men, first initiative and all that jazz (dating and maintaining relationship). birds and animals do it as well.

back to your topic it is easy to pick up girls on the street believe me hang out after 12 noon around jewellers windows, restaurants, theatres, hypermarket, parks.

look in their eyes and smile say some thing like nice day what a great smile you having. see her response then pretend you are stranger in this bus stop, town where ever you happen to be ask her advice if she know the town better, even if you know the streets of your city ask her directions and may be she can take you there.