i have been a member for about a week and i havent had anyone message me, i have had replies to messages iv sent, but noone has got touch with me without me getting in contact with them first, im not after cyber and i aint on here to have a muck about, im a genuine guy lookin for friendship and romance, so check my profile out and get in touch and i will reply.

Patience hun and welcome to the forums

and check out this thread for more answers

http://www.flirtbox.net/dating/why-do-people-look-in-my-profile-and-not-leave-msg-s-.html
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Because you're male.

When my number was in the phone directory I didn't ring random other numbers in there to ask why they hadn't called me.
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No one sends me messages and Ive been here a while now!

Pah, they're all just shy really... right?

No one sends me messages and Ive been here a while now!

Pah, they're all just shy really... right?

i'm just not appreciated in my time.

give it a few years and they'll come flooding in.




its fun being deluded.

1) For a start, the general tendency in modern society is for men to approach women isn't it?

2) You're only going to get a contact if your profile stands out. Check out a lot of other bloke's profiles, and you'll realise why yours is no better!

3) FB ratios. This old one! I've heard the male to female ratio on this site is about 8:1, so why should women have to put the effort in to contact us? The impetus is on us!

I've been on flirtbox for about three months. Had a few people message me (not including being told off my admin!). You can't expect instant results in as little as a week. In the words of The Supremes (and not Phil Collins as I hasten to add), 'You can't hurry love'

maybe its because no one fancies you, just a thought.

Hmmmmm do we have a chik within our midst??????
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