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Home >> Dating >> Why don't guys want something serious?
07.02.2008, 22:52 quote
| julie968 wrote: |
| ive just come out of a relatioship of 5 monhs thought it was serious , thought things were pretty much ok until last week...
hes now decided that i live too far away the distance is sunderland - wallsend ( really miles apart) but the fact ive bought him loads of stuff ranging from aftershave ..earrings and clothes just maks me think that his sole intention was to get as much as he could then move on, i pity the next person he neets as likely she will fall for it hook line and sinker too im not saying ll guys are like this but the the last 2 ive been out with have been a waste of my time the day i meet someone special i will probably run a mile  |
Ain't that the truth .........
In response to the question, in my experience, most relationships are pretty intense at first, then either one, normally the guy, or both parties, sort of back of a bit. Some girls could mistake this as them not wanting anything serious, back off as well ............ relationship over. Very hard thing to judge, but if the communcation is there and without either party being too 'scary' then you've cracked it.
At the end of the day if the guy wants you he should tell you and not be all macho and hide his feelings ............ Did i just say all that out loud ...........
I have learned over the years to try and not jump in feet first ........ which can be very hard at times, but very necessary for self preservation .......... if it's mean't to be it will be ....... xx
07.02.2008, 23:08 quote
| julie968 wrote: |
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hes now decided that i live too far away the distance is sunderland - wallsend ( really miles apart) |
Bloody hell, that's just around the corner from each other
| julie968 wrote: |
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.........but the fact ive bought him loads of stuff ranging from aftershave ..earrings and clothes......... |
Count yourself lucky, I'd have tapped you for books, CD's, DVD's, chocolate fudge, strawberries, Pedigree Jumbones, Agent Provocatur lingerie, Woods Navy Rum, Bakers dog food, bombay mix, Galaxy Minstrels, Golden Virginia, 12 first class stamps, a tub of organic closed cup mushrooms, a dog collar, a 500GB external hard drive, guitar strings. Aren't you glad you didn't meet someone like me?
(Hey, I'm just kidding, I'd have settled for a tub of Palmers Cocoa Butter)
08.02.2008, 02:28 quote
| darkhorse57 wrote: | ||||
Bloody hell, that's just around the corner from each other
Count yourself lucky, I'd have tapped you for books, CD's, DVD's, chocolate fudge, strawberries, Pedigree Jumbones, Agent Provocatur lingerie, Woods Navy Rum, Bakers dog food, bombay mix, Galaxy Minstrels, Golden Virginia, 12 first class stamps, a tub of organic closed cup mushrooms, a dog collar, a 500GB external hard drive, guitar strings. Aren't you glad you didn't meet someone like me? (Hey, I'm just kidding, I'd have settled for a tub of Palmers Cocoa Butter) |
lingerie ?
08.02.2008, 08:24 quote
| Leglover227 wrote: | ||||||
lingerie ? |
Trust you to notice that in the long llist
What can I say? I appreciate the finer things in life as well as the the mundane.
11.02.2008, 15:39 quote
| stuc wrote: |
| Don't worry we are not all like that. Well know I am not anyway! Guess the older you get and are on your own the harder the task seems to meet someone new and nice. Guess we all just need to actually enjoy the challenge ahead. |
you all say that .
he even said that too which put me off my guard a little
i just hate being ion me own ..but i wouldnt just go out with someone just so i wasnt im still as picky as ever
well anyway ive moved on.. only a week since we split and i met someone today had a coffee and "fingers crossed" something materialises
what didnt help he was on late shift and had to go after an hour but weve talked since so thats good and he only lives 2 minutes away from my house to so thats a bonus
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