what would be better is if women messaged the men they like, 'cos there are so meny and not enough women. its kinda of a 80% men ratio here, but one goes on trying...

women, if u think I'm right message me as I'm losing hope quickly

Must be just luck with me joined last week someone sent a message on second day have been in contact with three others got messages back even from the person who said we were to far away. I must take this chance (bowing down) to thank all the friendly people on this site have checked through the old posts some of you people are so so funney? Once again thanks...........the one thing i would say to new people is get involved in the forums that wil ease you in slowly. Theres plenty of time to meet people!

Hi i'm Melanie 28 lesbian.

I'd say alot of people dont respond because they're not looking for anything serious from these sites. You seem like a nice, caring, honest young guy but come across quite serious, bit like me! I've had to change mine to sound a bit more how other people want it to be rather than being myself....i know it doesn't seem the right thing to do but trust me, as long as you dont lie about anything, you cant get in trouble for leaving stuff out at least until u get to know people a little better. dont get down hearted, keep smiling, remember the happier u seem to start the more u cheer other people, and at the end of the day thats all we all want if we're honest.

You go for it, i bet your next Q on here will be why do so many people seem so interested in what you have to say lol !

Good luck, take care

Melanie xx

such an upbeat post.. are you new here melanie? lol welcome to the madness