Perhaps there is no such thing as the "perfect person" and in reality what we must do is to learn to adapt to the "karma" around us ... and if applicable ... send out the signals that we want recipicated. Is this too heavy

I think it's alot about adapting, not taking things too seriously and just generally being easy going and not setting huge expectations then again I could be completely wrong because I haven't had much luck either lol

I think that it may be that the people who really want love may come off as desperate. It's disappointing really, because obviously there are a lot of people out there, so there should be someone for all the people wanting love, but it's so hard to find the right person for you.

'Tis the nature of the beast...

Love cannot be calculated, predicted or prepared. It does not choose, or even feel sympathy, it just happens. And it happens on its own time.

Sure, some will settle for their interpretation of love, or some remote semblance of it, but that voice in the back of your head is best listened to. It catches up to those people. 1, 5, 10, even 50 years later, but "making it work" will catch up in the end.

There are so many people on this planet yet it is hard to find someone that we have things in common with? We have our check list... are they tall enough, thin or big enough... white, black, short, thin.... I read on this web site that no thin people need apply and the guy went into a rhetoric on how thin people think they are all that and he wanted a bbw... all these big women replied cursing off thin women as well We are attracted to who we are attracted to and it takes time to search for that, but if you do not fit into that box, it doesnt make you an ugly or unfit person!!!!

True love waits. You dont find it. It will find you.. [/i]