What great advice from the males here Kevin, there isnt much left for me to say really, just give yourself some time and dont go looking for love, sometimes it finds you when you least expect it. Good Luck

Very true statement from Eldorado .. If you dont take care of your woman, someone else will

just try not to love them, ppl usually don't like things that come too easy to them.
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wow...wot a lot of advice...some true some not...i wonder sometimes if im to nice...not being big headed....but i would do anything for her and hardly ever argue even when she was in the wrong...perhaps im just a boring old fart...[/quote]

Kevin, the pain does fade, eventually you will keep her in a little reserved space in your head.
Good luck, keep doing this and I promise you will find happiness :-

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ethic_of_reciprocity
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