hey girls, just because a small minority of guys decide to have a crack at fuller figured girls doesnt mean we are all like that and i tell you absolutely far from it in fact there are heaps of guys that just love a full figured lady and i for one and i know heaps of others. just love the big beautifull women

And women don't take the piss out of overweight men?...One sees this regularly on TV, the insideous way they talk about overweight men, but are more gentle and hypocritical when they talk about overweihgt women...

Me?...Preffer women to be skinny, plump, but not fat...Sorry if I seem insensitive, but that is what they are, just like fat men..Stay off the burgers and chips, oh and cakes...

Women take the piss out of shorter men, bald men, ginger men (EH??), bespectacled men, poorer men...

If you are happy with the way you are, stop whingeing and get on with it...I do..

Sad fact is Cazza hes right. For the vast majority of people it really is a case of eating a little less and getting off their arse every now and again. That applies to men and women.

I like my women to look like women. Fragile little waifs make great clothes-horses, but I've always found them a complete turn-off physically. Maybe its the fear of breaking something if you're too rough, I dunno, but I'd much rather have a woman you can really get your teeth into (literally, sometimes). There are limits though.

I used to have all sorts of excuses as to why I was overweight, and used to take great offence if anyone attributed to the fact that I was bone idle, ate shit and was putting away 5-8 pints every night. Five-and-a-half stone less and its quite clear that I wasn't just 'big-boned' or had 'problems wiv me glands'.

I'm not saying this is true for everyone, but we're getting an appalling level of obesity in this country. When you can notice it in ten years of walking down your local highstreet its obvious that the UK isn't suffering from some glandular pandemic. More a case of poor diet and an increasingly sedantry lifestyle.

So yeah, give me the curves. But don't give me the bullshit when you have to wash yourself with a rag on a stick. Crying into the eclair won't help either.

Oh yeah, and fat men get far worse comments and attitude than women. Theres no male equivalent of voluptuous to fall back on.

Cassa

Don't want to get into an argument, but really, your response is typically female in response - defensive and denial...Lighten up, I was generalising and it's a sad fact of modern society, obeesity is certainly the case...As Chikhai agreed...

However...

I have worked with a collegue who had a glandular problem, she categorically denied she was large, she called herself FAT...Complained about that fact she didn't eat a lot, whilst she munched on a packet of crisps for dinner...I ask you!?!?..she really didn't eat a lot, but wot she ate was for the most part crap, unhealthy and for the healthy food, too little...

Now...Let's get onto guys, a point I raised which you missed out in your response...As Chikhai said (again) guys get a much more harder time than girls..Question: Would you go out wi a fat guy...sorry...LARGE chap?

Before ye reply, be truthfully, honest...I don't really care wot your answer would be, this is for yourself to answer, to yourself...

ME?...Had too much red wine, good food and not enough excercise in recent years, and then theres the festive seasonall munchings..This year I will get back to near as dam hell as I used to be (before I turned 30 years old was a 28 waist and 40 chest...Didn't do weight lifting, was just the way I was...)..34 waist now...Gee too large for me...

I'll end on the same note I did before...

Women take the piss out of shorter men, bald men, ginger men (EH??), bespectacled men, poorer men...

If you are happy with the way you are, stop whingeing and get on with it...I do..
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I know, got yer name wrong, this website is so slow (plus/or my PC is crap), it regularly makes my PC hang, couldn't be arsed to go back and change it...

so...

The only answer I can give is...

A very wearisome heavy ....*sigh*....

"oh dear, how sad, never mind"....

Enjoy....
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Well Mr Jump ............ Mmmmmmmm i have stayed out of this one so far .......... as i am somewhat oppionated on this subject I normally find though, that those who shout the loudest are normally the ones that have the most insecurities about themselves, just an observation ..............

The only thing i agree with though is if your not happy with who you are then try and do something about it .............. Long Live the Fuller Figured Girl .......

Edited by Cazzabee as personal abuse at me

signing oot: a wee baldy short arsed beer/goodfood bellied gobby "nay money" (coz a hand it aw over tae the Cooncil in taxes) whinge-in Scotsman ...Oh, single parent aswell... ...



Rant over...Relax, run a warm soapy bath, and listen to some Sibelius...
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Well you certainly know how to make an entrance ................ i'll give you that

Right i'm off to eat some Jaffa Cakes ........... Night all ...........

Annmarie5988 (got yer name right -jeez some people..!!..Call me Mr.Jump..jumpy...jumpergy...jumpydinkydink.. wotever...) I say...

"Thank you"...

"I am who I am, I let people know where they stand"...this is not just a well known (hijacked) female trait, but universal....

Just because I don't agree with the rest...

Would it be better if I lied and said..."yeah, these men are all beasts, they tell you lovely large women that you are fat..wot blasphemy...I think it's terrible, I think you are all very georgous and want to cuddle you forever "..(the last part rather dodgy if you ask me...)

No, I am honest, upfront and speak my mind (as it says in your profile Cazzabee?)....

As I say..If you are happy with the way you are, then be happy and stop bleating about the way others see you, and try to belittle - You....But don't tell yourself lies about the "whys" and the "it's an addiction"...Etc...I don't...
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Ye do get lard in them mince pies eh?

I'm off to the pub...Nip into Burger King for a lardy breakfast, double helping...Better be carefull, might get a beer belly...But that is attractive...Innit?..Erm...

Women, make yer choice...Brad Pitt or Homer Simpson...

Yeah, thought so...
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