I don't think anyone's here opinions are correct (though I didn't check 'em all) as everyone is different. Some people like something some people dont. it's inevitable. it's not going to change. all one can do is accept that some people do and some people don't like you.

That's life. If you want to loose weight it's your choice not your nabour's kids or your bosses.

The only reason that it's "bad" par-say is that it can cause health problems later in life. I'm a fairly large guy. I'm nearly 19 stone, but if you look at me most people would guess 14st as I have a 42inch waist.

I wouldn't say I'm happy with my weight, so I've started takin the family dog out for a run/walk and I'm not dieting, though am eating more fruit, and veg, than I used to and have stoped drinking alcohol.

People are different and should stop taking everything so seriously.

But that's my opinion, and if anyone has actually read it all, would probably disagree. but hay. can't change it as it's an opinion. Just take it with a bit of salt. I personally try not to discriminate against anyone, but can't gaurentee that.

Hmm didn't mean to post such a long post. sorry peeps.

We all have different taste at the end of the day. Are bigger women, or skinnier women better lovers? Who fookin cares???

All I can say is don't knock anythin till you've tried it. . .


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some men like surfin - some dont

Are you trying to convince us all that women are not rude about over weight men?Have you noticed there is no female equivelent for mysoginist.

"Misandronist" would be the word.

Men who insult fuller-figured women because of their shape are low-quality people.

I suspect these men have difficulty thinking of anything more complex than food, drink and sex.

To be avoided.

Some men not all, see fuller women as easy target for sex period. Again you have to make stronger efforts to weed out pigs and jerks from the rest.
If you are a fuller woman and just met a guy that keeps telliing you how sexy you are etc, be careful...smack him perhaps lol.

Don't get me wrong, you are sexy, but you have to acknowledge how guys think. We are not brianiacs yet we tend to get away with a lot of b.s when it comes to relationship. Just make better choices in partners. Forget if you are fuller or skinny person and just date away and hope to find a good mate is all.

I admire when a man says full figured women can be sexy, I no i can and very sensual, I have never had complaints about my performance or personality, but i wonder if there were 2 women standing side by side, one full figured and one model. the model is standing there just smiling but the full figured one is laughing and having a good time which one would you go and talk with and want to know

Mike there are lots of women that take personality of looks, but if you are not happy with yourself then no one else will be either. I know I am happy with myself, but i also know i want and will lose the weight that needs to come off

You have all these people around you that are unhappy so why be there, i dont feel sorry for anyone that does not try to make a better life for themselves, no matter what the situation. there are always ways to improve your life and lifestyle

I just find it funny how people divide women (and men for that matter) into groups: slim (i.e. normal) and fuller figure (i.e. fat). It's the same thing as dividing people into groups according to their race or whether they're handicapped or not. It's like the fuller figured women are supposed to fight for the fact that they're as good as "normal" people. Seems like now in the world we no longer have men and women - we have "normal" men and women and "abnormal" men and women who are less human than others.
Dunno if i've expressed myself clearly but anyway...