Hi,

I have been wondering this for a while and so have many of my friends why do men not talk to you when your out in bars and clubs but instead try and grab you and kiss you before even knowing your name? Do men not understand that women don't like? And that they may get a lot further with a lot of women if they just started talking to you?

Bacause most of them dont give a toss what your name is, they just want to bang you

well for me i find it hard cause i dont like to be let down or just ignored plus i dont really have the confidence to just go up to any woman and say hi wanna dance or wanna drink just incase they say f-k off really any way why is it always the man that has to make the first move

some guys have a fear of rejection, some guys are tossers and do what you said...but the thing is why dont you go and talk to the guys? it shouldnt always be about the guy making the move...be brave and make the move yourself and you might be pleasantly surprised
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Obviously this is a heated topic for some. Keep the language down though guys, cheers

Same as aradon,

Im alright if talking like friends once it goes further than that im way way too shy! So i guess i tend not to get my self into that situation, thus why im single! Crap really i guess innit!
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yea its really irratating trying to chat to girls in bars and clubs... the majority are rude and arrogant from my exp!!