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Home >> Dating >> Why do men not talk to women?
22.10.2006, 21:05 quote
Hi,
I have been wondering this for a while and so have many of my friends why do men not talk to you when your out in bars and clubs but instead try and grab you and kiss you before even knowing your name? Do men not understand that women don't like? And that they may get a lot further with a lot of women if they just started talking to you?
22.10.2006, 21:37 quote
Bacause most of them dont give a toss what your name is, they just want to bang you
22.10.2006, 21:52 quote
| missme7 wrote: |
| Bacause most of them dont give a toss what your name is, they just want to bang you |
rofl
im personally too shy to do either of the aforementioned, im <bleep> at first encounters LOL
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22.10.2006, 21:53 quote
| hanalan wrote: |
| Hi,
I have been wondering this for a while and so have many of my friends why do men not talk to you when your out in bars and clubs but instead try and grab you and kiss you before even knowing your name? Do men not understand that women don't like? And that they may get a lot further with a lot of women if they just started talking to you? |
maybe you go to the wrong kind of bars
22.10.2006, 22:01 quote
| missme7 wrote: |
| Bacause most of them dont give a toss what your name is, they just want to bang you |
yep just 1 thing in mind .....
GC
22.10.2006, 22:04 quote
| GCypher wrote: | ||
yep just 1 thing in mind ..... GC |
I said most....
22.10.2006, 22:07 quote
| missme7 wrote: | ||||
I said most.... |
22.10.2006, 22:56 quote
| hanalan wrote: |
| Hi,
I have been wondering this for a while and so have many of my friends why do men not talk to you when your out in bars and clubs but instead try and grab you and kiss you before even knowing your name? Do men not understand that women don't like? And that they may get a lot further with a lot of women if they just started talking to you? |
Its a two parter really.
You've got the arrogant knobs that just want to get their end off and aren't bothered about talking.
You've also got the non-arrogant folk who probably won't talk to women either because they don't think that people will be interested in listening to what they have to say, or can't think of anything to say.
Their tactic probably does work, even if 9 out of 10 girls tell him to <bleep> off, somewhere down the line one won't and he's not had to find his brain cell to turn it on.
23.10.2006, 15:16 quote
well for me i find it hard cause i dont like to be let down or just ignored plus i dont really have the confidence to just go up to any woman and say hi wanna dance or wanna drink just incase they say f-k off really any way why is it always the man that has to make the first move
23.10.2006, 15:53 quote
| basildonlad22 wrote: |
| well for me i find it hard cause i dont like to be let down or just ignored plus i dont really have the confidence to just go up to any woman and say hi wanna dance or wanna drink just incase they say f-k off really any way why is it always the man that has to make the first move |
it dont, but if the girl you like is shy she wont wanna risk it so you have to ask yourself how much do you wanna get to know her? if you like someone enough they should be worth risking a plain old rebuff. personally i would say bars are probably the worst place anybody could hope to find a long term partner, everybody seems to be out on the pull. but thats just my experience.
23.10.2006, 16:00 quote
| basildonlad22 wrote: |
| well for me i find it hard cause i dont like to be let down or just ignored plus i dont really have the confidence to just go up to any woman and say hi wanna dance or wanna drink just incase they say f-k off really any way why is it always the man that has to make the first move |
Only ignorant people would tell somebody to eff off.
And it isn't always the men that has to make the first move. If I like a guy..I have no problem making a move!
23.10.2006, 16:31 quote
some guys have a fear of rejection, some guys are tossers and do what you said...but the thing is why dont you go and talk to the guys? it shouldnt always be about the guy making the move...be brave and make the move yourself and you might be pleasantly surprised
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23.10.2006, 16:34 quote
Obviously this is a heated topic for some. Keep the language down though guys, cheers 
23.10.2006, 19:49 quote
Same as aradon,
Im alright if talking like friends once it goes further than that im way way too shy! So i guess i tend not to get my self into that situation, thus why im single! Crap really i guess innit!
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24.10.2006, 16:08 quote
yea its really irratating trying to chat to girls in bars and clubs... the majority are rude and arrogant from my exp!!
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