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13.06.2007, 14:19 quote

Anonymous

loubylou wrote:
answer coz the do


awwwwwwwwwwwww Crying or Very sad

 

13.06.2007, 14:41 quote

annmarie5988

loubylou wrote:
answer coz the do


they dont hate you, they just love themselves more laola

 

13.06.2007, 23:39 quote

elitious
Joined: 06 Apr 2007 Posts: 1264 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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i ask the same, why woman, hate me Embarassed
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13.06.2007, 23:52 quote

samatron
samatron Joined: 24 May 2007 Posts: 219 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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Women don't hate you!
If you can get on with men, you can get on with women.
Women find a lot of the same silly stuff just as funny as men do.
You need to make some women friends. Platonic friendships with women will sure go a long way to building up the confidence you need to talk to women.
The easy way to meet women friends is to start doing a leisure activity that women are into, such as yoga, drama or dancing.
You'll find out pretty fast that women don't hate you, mate!

 

18.06.2007, 22:52 quote

Eldorado47
Joined: 07 Jun 2007 Posts: 56 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cambridgeshire
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fak all to smile about an anyway i am what i am, i am not scarey


There is nothing wrong with you, you are a good looking girl, and reading your posts you seem to be able to communicate well, I wouldn't worry about it.

For that matter I can't see why anyone on this forum would be here, including me, I never met such a nice crew.

I'm gonna have to get out more! lol
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19.06.2007, 00:17 quote

genhex
genhex Joined: 22 Mar 2007 Posts: 45 Location: United Kingdom, England, Nottinghamshire
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Samatron talks a lot of sense. Not much more to add.

But no one's exactly explained why they think people hate them. If it's just 'cos some people ignore your messages then so what.

People are right when they say smile. Being a miserable bastard is only going to halve your chances of scoring. You've got to enjoy life yourself, then people will see you and think "I could be laughing and joking like that with them" (or something to that affect).

 

19.06.2007, 07:44 quote

Anonymous

loubylou wrote:
answer coz the do


Perhaps if you were a little less fussy and didn't put up so many negative posts?

Just a thought.

 

19.06.2007, 07:47 quote

minijellytot

redoctober wrote:
loubylou wrote:
answer coz the do


Perhaps if you were a little less fussy and didn't put up so many negative posts?

Just a thought.


had the same thought myself

 

20.06.2007, 08:04 quote

Anonymous

Have you thought that you might be meeting the wrong men. If you always do what you've done you will always get what you've got. Perhaps its not the men that hate you Lou perhaps it is yourself that does. I think we will discuss this further If you cant catch me on MSN you know you can always email me anytime. Take care babe X

 

20.06.2007, 22:46 quote

justb
Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 696 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland, Down
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Minijellytot wrote:
redoctober wrote:
loubylou wrote:
answer coz the do


Perhaps if you were a little less fussy and didn't put up so many negative posts?

Just a thought.


had the same thought myself


sorry but to be fair its quite refreshing to hear someone actually puts up negative posts (not seen any will look though). Like I'm really sorry but all this, fun, fun fun is just crap. I'm pretty much knackered most of the time between kids, work, feckin housework and the time I do have to myself I'm made feel I should be out "living life to the full". FFS.
Life throws some pretty shitty things at u and it can get u down. But thats ok, coz it happens (or should that be shit happen I dunno).
Anyway Lou, feck them, feck them all. U know ur right and u know he'll be right when he comes along. So whats to worry about?

 

23.06.2007, 11:43 quote

cazzamcg
Joined: 19 Jun 2007 Posts: 10 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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loubylou wrote:
fak all to smile about an anyway i am what i am, i am not scarey Mad


I think it is all in the way you portray yourself.

Put a picture up of you smiling and don't be so aggressive in your manner and you will do fine. It is amazing tht just the simplest things that you type can put someone off in seconds.

Take it from one who knows all about aggressiveness chick! Wink


If you smile at people they will smile back.
Try it really does work.

 

23.06.2007, 14:45 quote

kizz

[/quote]

sorry but to be fair its quite refreshing to hear someone actually puts up negative posts (not seen any will look though). Like I'm really sorry but all this, fun, fun fun is just crap. I'm pretty much knackered most of the time between kids, work, feckin housework and the time I do have to myself I'm made feel I should be out "living life to the full". FFS.
Life throws some pretty shitty things at u and it can get u down. But thats ok, coz it happens (or should that be shit happen I dunno).
Anyway Lou, feck them, feck them all. U know ur right and u know he'll be right when he comes along. So whats to worry about?[/quote]

Smile Couldn't agree more. I feel like this sometimes but never mention it (until now) in case I get shot down.

It looks like Louby has met someone now.. good on ya hun and I wish you all the best Smile

 

06.07.2007, 15:25 quote

bliss23

Don't mind me, but the first thing I would've asked in reply to this post would've been "Why do you think they hate ya?" better yet, "In which sense do you think they hate ya?"
Not that I think anybody would hate ya. Surprised

 

16.07.2007, 20:26 quote

hjdarry
hjdarry Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, England, Durham
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wats up you look down why would anyone hate a sweet face like yours

 

16.07.2007, 20:31 quote

hjdarry
hjdarry Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, England, Durham
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Leglover227 wrote:
loubylou wrote:
answer coz the do


awwwwwwwwwwwww Crying or Very sad
hjdarry sayes- you are hot Embarassed ithink you are f.a.f

 
 
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