i've sent messeges to various women whom i find myself drawn to. no matter what i messege them i never seem to get a reply. i have tried every approach i can think of but to no avail. i mention things we have in common or ask if they want to chat. i don't know if i'm doing it all wrong but i never get a reply. i may not be a great looking fella but do you need to be to chat? come on girls give me a clue. what do you like to see in your first messege from a guy?

It might be because you have nothing on ur profile. I rarely reply to women that dont have any info about themselves.

Join the club!!!! try havin a look to see whether the reciprients are on line or the last time they were! they dont weed out the long dormant profiles! or you mite have messaged a lesbian

Cud be if i messaged lesbians! don't get me wrong idon't have a prob with gay people!
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

Now that is something i didn't know!!!! but as i've never bothered to message a lesbian i wonder if the same applies to lesbians messaging fellas?
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

I checked, there's an option for guys looking for guys. I stand corrected!

To the first guy...


Look through some of the old threads here..I'm not repeating myself again about messages!