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30.08.2006, 18:42 quote

Anonymous

mysticmuso wrote:
Hi all,

I often see incredible women in public, who I am just dying to speak to, but never find the opportunity to approach them, and what usually happens is they pass me by and I don't do anything.

Girls - do you find it creepy f guys approach you in public, if it is only to say hello?


I must admit, if I guy came up to me in the street I think I would ask him if he was with Jeremy Beadle! LOL... I would certainly think he was carrying out a dare or a bet (or perhaps he was on day release and lost his carer!!!)

If I guy in a bar approached me I would be less suspicious, I suppose its because a bar is classed as a more obvious place to be approached than when you're lugging your shopping back to the car, or rushing out on your lunch break. If you see what I mean?

Is this just social conditioning though?

 

30.08.2006, 19:23 quote

ChiefOHara
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Irish women aren't too hard to approach if you bring raw meat.

 

30.08.2006, 19:24 quote

Anonymous

I'm not difficult to approach if you bring me either Coffee or martini.

 

30.08.2006, 19:26 quote

ChiefOHara
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Says the spider to the fly....

 

30.08.2006, 19:27 quote

Anonymous

Eh?

 

30.08.2006, 19:33 quote

ChiefOHara
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i apologize, bad joke. Last time i approached a woman she tore the head off me, im still sore over it.

 

30.08.2006, 19:39 quote

Anonymous

I thought you were comparing me to a fly or a creepy spider then...


Ouch.

Well, I nearly approached a guy today in a shop. Except I ended up stood there staring at him like a drooling idiot. And I dropped my phone(Which he watched me picking up because I was wearing a pretty low cut top Rolling Eyes )
I was like an idiot. Sad

 

30.08.2006, 19:43 quote

ChiefOHara
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lol
Don't worry im sure he was pretty flatterd. You probably just caught him off guard cause men aren't that desperately used to being approached. Ill bet he's cursing himself right now at the fact he didn't try to help pick up the phone for you.

 

30.08.2006, 19:47 quote

Anonymous

Hopefully i'll see him again and at least will be able to say something to him.. Embarassed

 

30.08.2006, 19:53 quote

ChiefOHara
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Im sure you will, and you never know. next time he might drop his phone Very Happy

 

30.08.2006, 19:57 quote

Anonymous

Yeah. When he thinks 'oh crap, it's the wierd girl that stares and drops her phone' and then makes a run for it!

 

30.08.2006, 20:01 quote

ChiefOHara
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Well at least you'll have a new phone (His) if that happens Very Happy

 

30.08.2006, 20:05 quote

Anonymous

True.

 

31.08.2006, 09:49 quote

ScotsDave
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flowerangelaura wrote:
I thought you were comparing me to a fly or a creepy spider then...


Ouch.

Well, I nearly approached a guy today in a shop. Except I ended up stood there staring at him like a drooling idiot. And I dropped my phone(Which he watched me picking up because I was wearing a pretty low cut top Rolling Eyes )
I was like an idiot. Sad




Being a gentleman i would have looked away Laughing

 

31.08.2006, 09:56 quote

Anonymous

ScotsDave wrote:


Being a gentleman i would have looked away Laughing


Haha..

 
 
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