most of them carry stun guns and mace, so it only makes sense to be a bit wary on approach, my advice is to circle around them until they get dizzy and fall down.

i don't view myself as hard to approach. infact i am very friendly and lively. i am much like i am on here. i'd talk to my own reflection really. i have often went out for a cig in the pubs and not come back for half hour cos i met a really interesting stranger. lmao.

but still i dont get asked out.

i think men just make up these ideas that women are hard to approach to make us do all the work.

[quote="redoctober I'll admit to telling one or 2 guys on here that I liked the sound/look of them but i could never do it in the 'real' world. I'm a lot shyer than I appear virtually and if someone takes it the wrong way on a dating site (or wherever), it's a lot easier to deal with than if someone in front of you does.[/quote]



Bet you would'nt kiss and tell

Guys don't like to approach me. I give off a "I'm a sarcastic bitch" vibe, I think! Unless i'm really happy, and don't stop smiling.

But I have no problem approaching guys.......

I've found women generally approach me from under water and have big scary teeth

I could be thinking of Jaws however.

Not really they are human after all, I find them interesting and beautiful at ease to approach and I smile and flirt in my street, supermarket, bus stops, libraries, clubs, every where usually they smile back. If they turn twice and give me a smile I follow and start chatting more and take it from there.