Hello

I can't really say that I go into forums such as these to find "sex".

However, do consider this a warning. When I come to England in March, I do plan on taking your little country by storm and fucking as many of you male apes as the time, and my long waiting celebate body allows.


You can stop laughing now.


No, seriously....I come into places like this to get to know other people. To get a view of their world from their eyes, what makes them tick, why they do the things they do and such. Possibly meet new friends. I plan on traveling to England in March and would like as much input as possible. From what I've seen and heard from various Brits, I have come to the conclusion that it's a no-nonsense culture. THAT very much appeals to me.

As far as relationships go........I understand how hard it is to even stick your neck out to dare such a venture. The last several realtionships, have left me with quite a bitter taste in my mouth.

For some reason, I only attract men who are either married or involved in a relationship r/t.

It's like I have this virtual "post-it-note" slapped on my forehead that says......"If you're attached, then I'm available".


I have no problem with men flirting with me. As long as they know when "enough is enough" and how far to go with it. As well as taking the hint when I let on that it's getting a bit old.

The issue that seems to hammer the fatal nail into any relationship I've been in, is honesty. Maybe I'm expecting too much? But I grow tired of men blowing smoke up my ass because they feel it wins them brownie points. And people around me wonder why I don't take compliments easily. It's more times than not cleverly disguising a more less than noble characteristic the man seems to have. The last relationship has been no exception........and it has left me cursing myself for ignoring the warning signs.


I say this as I wipe the reminants of linen from my face, from the red flags that I have been delicately slapped with, and chose to ignore.


One of these days....I will learn NOT to ignore them from the get go.

mysticmuso.... many girls would love a guy to come up to her and chat her up... here in Ireland .. a guy normally will chat you up but he needs to have 20 pints inside him first. Theres no such thing as getting to know his sober self ... it just wont happen...
Life is too short not to do what you want to do especially when its something as nice as going up to a girl and telling her you think shes cute and would she like to go for a drink.. the worse she can say is no...

why are women so hard to approach..?

i think the answer to this is simple...

'they are not, only you and you alone , in your mind, have made it hard to approach them..'
the real question is 'why have you done that?'..then tackle that..

i dont think i am hard to approach?
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill!!!!

well!!! I AM NOT ECCLES!!!!
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Sorry couldnt resist it Trace
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill!!!!

lol lol good job i can laugh!!! but hey!!! i am not prickly!!!
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I think it is women nature to make u work hard to get her.

The above is so right woman are like anyone .........therefore just be yourself talk smile do what you do with your friends

Okay so now I know what I am doing wrong. I should just start up a conversation about cricket and ask if they want a bet on the next ashes? Not certain this is the best approach?

On a more serious point then, how do you do this when women go out in packs, minimum two. Understand why from a safety point of view, but does make it harder to approach?