Bravo mystic you have hit the nail on the head! love is definitely on the agenda of most people but the division between casual and monogamous love is sadly ignored!!!!
_________________
This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

hey , just thought id reply.

if i was walking down the street and a stranger walked up and said hi, i would be very imbaresssed and even a lil rude, if i was ouy in a pub, club, bar etc and a bloke was to approach me id think it was great! think theres a time and place

I think it just depends on how u approach a person and the person you are approaching. I am the type of person that will just go up and say you are a very sexy looking man, as some of the guys on here know. I have messaged just to say that or that i like their posts. As far as someone msging me, put a little more into it than just hi or i like your pic, talk about something in common on both your profiles, which is what i have said before in these forums, ok i have overstayed today

always the crazilicious aluria

i think to many guys make the make the mistake of pretending there some thing there not but if your just your self you should be good if they dont like you it was not going to be worth it in the first place

thats true i like men who are just themselves and woh dont try to hard.

hi, i'm new here so have had no success...lol... approaching women can be difficult unless an opportunity lands at ya feet like for example u bump each others trolleys at the supermarket or your kid(s) take a shine to theirs at the play park or u crash into each other..d'oh..lol, has been known so smile and take it easy and let the oppurtunity unfold.
the bit about obsessive compulsory syndrome, i have experienced that ....went out with a girl who was very good looking....looked like kate moss funnily enough but the ocd was all part of anxiety disorders and depression etc....such a shame and my offers of help/understanding were always rejected so it was never gonna work, her house was clean tho..lol....
so what's the talent like on here?..no ocd though plz.....lol