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27.07.2006, 16:42 quote
Bravo mystic you have hit the nail on the head! sex is definitely on the agenda of most people but the division between casual and monogamous sex is sadly ignored!!!!
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27.07.2006, 19:44 quote
| flowerangelaura wrote: |
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I have OCD.  |
Laura Dahling Please!
Please don't say Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Instead, say Compulsive Obsessive Disorder (COD) because that is in alphabetical order.
27.07.2006, 20:06 quote
| emcsquared wrote: | ||
Laura Dahling Please! Please don't say Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) Instead, say Compulsive Obsessive Disorder (COD) because that is in alphabetical order. |
Nice try, I wonder who's going to fall for it...
27.07.2006, 20:51 quote
| emcsquared wrote: | ||
Laura Dahling Please! Please don't say Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) Instead, say Compulsive Obsessive Disorder (COD) because that is in alphabetical order. |
I'll say it how I wish to, thanks.
28.07.2006, 07:02 quote
hey , just thought id reply.
if i was walking down the street and a stranger walked up and said hi, i would be very imbaresssed and even a lil rude, if i was ouy in a pub, club, bar etc and a bloke was to approach me id think it was great! think theres a time and place 
28.07.2006, 21:10 quote
| gorgeousgirl4444 wrote: |
| hey , just thought id reply.
if i was walking down the street and a stranger walked up and said hi, i would be very imbaresssed and even a lil rude, if i was ouy in a pub, club, bar etc and a bloke was to approach me id think it was great! think theres a time and place |
hi...does this mean that strangers saying hi on a forum is a good/time/place...lol got the impression that you are only comfortable being approached by strangers when you have planned and prepared for it..ie going out to pub/club/bar...i am confused by what you mean by embarrassed? do you mean uncomfortable, as this is what i relate to myself?..
28.07.2006, 21:46 quote
| ayrshire wrote: |
| i have had no luck on this site at all all u get is guys that are way to old for me or juys that just ant to use me for sex. why is that?.. x |
I know how that feels to you,Well you keep on try finding right person and don't give on yourself and Go out alot more public places to talk to some more guys who knows luck can bring anything.Yeah!! i have been doing that for years too try get hook up with girly on other dating sites in past and they are some wierd onies out there even incluing my area...LOL
29.07.2006, 04:20 quote
| mysticmuso wrote: | ||
| Yes I am in agreement with Swissrebel - and thanks for the nice answer.
I noticed that these sites are used for sex maniacs, or sexual terrorists for want of a better word.. maybe nymphos.. wanting all kinds of strange fantasies fulfilled. Why can't these site provide a virtual place for like minded individuals to hook up. I must admit that I am looking for sex, but not the cheap thrill kind. More of a female partner I can get on a wavelength with. Sex would be the end result of the encounter but not the be all and end all. Sex would be a result of us getting on so well and feeling enough attraction for that to take place. I have learned that any relationship based on sex alone is doomed to failure... so it's more important to establish a mental link first before the physical.
thanks for that - i will remember that and have more confidence in future. |
There are not enough men who think like you here mysticmuso! I so wish there were though
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03.08.2006, 09:03 quote
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| does this mean that strangers saying hi on a forum is a good/time/place...lol got the impression that you are only comfortable being approached by strangers when you have planned and prepared for it..ie going out to pub/club/bar...i am confused by what you mean by embarrassed? do you mean uncomfortable, as this is what i relate to myself?..[/qoute]
well in a forum you dont even no the person its over a computer so its a little different, i do agree that when im out in town im going out for the same reason as i guess as the person that would walk up to you and chat. so ye i do feel more comfortable. embarressed -BRIGHT RED IN THE FACE and yes very uncomfortable, |
03.08.2006, 13:56 quote
I think it just depends on how u approach a person and the person you are approaching. I am the type of person that will just go up and say you are a very sexy looking man, as some of the guys on here know. I have messaged just to say that or that i like their posts. As far as someone msging me, put a little more into it than just hi or i like your pic, talk about something in common on both your profiles, which is what i have said before in these forums, ok i have overstayed today
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03.08.2006, 14:33 quote
| Aluria wrote: |
| I think it just depends on how u approach a person and the person you are approaching. I am the type of person that will just go up and say you are a very sexy looking man, as some of the guys on here know. I have messaged just to say that or that i like their posts. As far as someone msging me, put a little more into it than just hi or i like your pic, talk about something in common on both your profiles, which is what i have said before in these forums, ok i have overstayed today
always the crazilicious aluria |
Aluria, you could never overstay!!! we all miss you! xx
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03.08.2006, 14:36 quote
i think to many guys make the make the mistake of pretending there some thing there not but if your just your self you should be good if they dont like you it was not going to be worth it in the first place
04.08.2006, 13:03 quote
hi, i'm new here so have had no success...lol... approaching women can be difficult unless an opportunity lands at ya feet like for example u bump each others trolleys at the supermarket or your kid(s) take a shine to theirs at the play park or u crash into each other..d'oh..lol, has been known so smile and take it easy and let the oppurtunity unfold.
the bit about obsessive compulsory syndrome, i have experienced that ....went out with a girl who was very good looking....looked like kate moss funnily enough but the ocd was all part of anxiety disorders and depression etc....such a shame and my offers of help/understanding were always rejected so it was never gonna work, her house was clean tho..lol....
so what's the talent like on here?..no ocd though plz.....lol
04.08.2006, 13:26 quote
| zipzap wrote: |
| hi, i'm new here so have had no success...lol... approaching women can be difficult unless an opportunity lands at ya feet like for example u bump each others trolleys at the supermarket or your kid(s) take a shine to theirs at the play park or u crash into each other..d'oh..lol, has been known so smile and take it easy and let the oppurtunity unfold.
the bit about obsessive compulsory syndrome, i have experienced that ....went out with a girl who was very good looking....looked like kate moss funnily enough but the ocd was all part of anxiety disorders and depression etc....such a shame and my offers of help/understanding were always rejected so it was never gonna work, her house was clean tho..lol.... so what's the talent like on here?..no ocd though plz.....lol |
well i been on this site for almost two years now.... first name was mandieD and newest one is this. i met two guys under the first name and am about to meet a guy with this one. so sometimes it does work. its just all about taking an opportunity and asking someone out. ask dan9ie for tips on that! lmfao.
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