only because I 'accidentally' stumbled upon this site... .. anyway.. just to find out that the girls that are looking for girls are quite more explicit in regards to what they are after. it is not very often that you see 'fun' or 'no strings fun' or more .. intimate objectives mentioned in the 'girl looking for men' profiles... Why do you think is that?

Not sure, seems to be true though. Only women can answer this.

I suppose there is a difference between Lesbian and bi curious women. Lesbians are probably looking for a relationship, whereas bi curious women just want to try sex with a women?? ...don't know.

Women don't need to specify.... most of the messages come from men wanting that anyway, so if you did state 'fun' and 'no strings fun' I think many women on here would have too many messages to be dealing with plus it encourages more of the men without pics up, who just want to cybersex and dirty talk.
Tbh it doesn't seem to matter though what you say on your profile, the important points seem to be ignored anyway so I don't think most men bother to even read your profile.

Its a hard life for some

Obviously if there were more women in net dating, then individual women would get less messages...and women would have to reply to more.

It follows, the fact that there are 3-1 men to every women means women will get a lot more messages, and probably don't need to send many out. Its probably one reason dating sites might fail, probably means men and women are less selective. Obviously for different reasons.

Wonder if there are any dating sites with 3 women to every man??

I like the way you 're thinking mate - drop me a line when you find it !!

There's probably some among the sites that cost a lot to join, and I did hear once that there was a site that men paid but women didn't, can't remember what it was called but was a few years back.

i reckon a lot of the female seeking female ppl on here are actually guys wanting to exchange photos with hot girls because they cant persuade them to do so as a guy. very few ppl are so blatant about their carnal intentions, even on the internet.

so most of the time i reckon there's a guy sat sending pics he dld'd of the net to another guy who's sending pics he dld'd off the net in return, HA! i hope they burn, slowly, and painfully.

S.J.

wholly possible, but sounds more like shy guys or guys with a secret... there is still a rule of courtship in our society, no matter how sordid it gets... generally the guys go for the girls, not just because its how it was in the past but because it just feels right, human nature. it does happen the other way round a lot of course.

just generally there are no bad consequences for a guy to go out actively searching for a girl in our society, but when its other way round very soon friends of the girl start to turn on her, the terms bitch and slut are thrown around like tennis balls, the guys often end up with a deflated ego no matter how much they'll say otherwise... its funny, we haven't advanced in method in hundreds of years, its only the speed that has increased... like technology, and science... hahaha