Hi folks...

Just wondering .. in recent months - past 6 - Ive been getting lots of attention whenever I go out.. especially from males. This never happened before. I havent changed anything about me as such. Ive been looking this way for quiet some time. Dont get me wrong, Im loving the attention as I never had it for years due to my being very overweight... just wondering if any of you would know any reasons for the sudden change..Thanks people x

As bad as it sounds if u have lost loads of weight a lot of people who care about that will suddenly pay u attention. But more realisticly if u have had a change in attitude, are suddenly more confident or happy people will notice and want to speak to u.

It's a sad fact that looks are number one on most people's lists. If you're unattractive or overweight then nobody seems to bother with you. As soon as you lose some weight, men are climbing over each other to get at you. It's good to have attention but of course that will also attract a few more dickheads although i'm sure you won't have much trouble sorting them out.

Hi guys. thanks for your replies so far.. thing is.. Ive been at the weight Im at now for the past year.. its not recent.. so it must be something other than the weight?