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Home >> Dating >> Who has brainwashed you people!?
09.04.2007, 12:17 quote
| doctorfaust wrote: | ||
Wait, you mean you believe them when they say they prefer personality over looks and money? HA! |
Dont tarnish all of us women with the same brush will you. some of us women are 100% honest.
09.04.2007, 12:21 quote
| danni82 wrote: |
| Dont tarnish all of us women with the same brush will you. some of us women are 100% honest. |
Fair enough. Many appologies to anyone who replies to profiles without photos
09.04.2007, 12:24 quote
| elitious wrote: | ||
most of the ladies don't even reply back to start a communication bridge, for crying out loud. |
Then u brush yourself off and move to the next one rather than get bitter about it. if a woman doesnt reply it can mean one of many things like maybe you didnt write anything interesting or you have a bland profile. i dont know yes alot of people are superficial but you have to hit a few hurdals before you can finish the race.
It took me a year or messages on here to find someone i really liked and i am glad i stayed cause eventually i got that one message that stood out, met with that person and now enjoying getting to know them even if there is 250 miles between us, he is the one that i have connected with on many levels and everything is great.
So stick with it, your'll get there eventually
09.04.2007, 12:25 quote
| danni82 wrote: | ||||
Dont tarnish all of us women with the same brush will you. some of us women are 100% honest. |
in my opinion there's alot of women on here that are honest and looking for a real partner.yes there's a few fake pics flying around but hey they soon get found out.
09.04.2007, 12:31 quote
| doctorfaust wrote: | ||
Fair enough. Many appologies to anyone who replies to profiles without photos |
well i dont always reply to messages without photos my opinion is if i am willing for people to see me what have they got to hide for them to hide themselfs?
Ok i wiped all my inbox 2 weeks ago and today i look in 2 weeks i have recvived 582 messages. in between working/looking for work looking after a house 2 cats a 3 year old boy and a mum how does a girl have the time to reply to every single message. If you want a reply then you need to have some depth in your profile, talk about dislikes and likes. make the first message you send something good not just the age old hi how you doing in joey tribiani esk writing. i can hand on heart say that 90% of those messages i have say hi i am hony i have cam how about a session. why should i reply to them?
I reply to the ones that just want to talk/chat. i have a boyfriend who is a reg on this site, so not looking for anything more if people took the time to read a profile properly before messaging them, they would have enough info in order to write a decent email
09.04.2007, 12:32 quote
God in his wisdom put admirers of all types to suit the types of people on this earth.
There are girls that like bald men, short men, ginger men, fat, strong, thin etc etc etc. The only problem is finding them.
The tall dark and handsome may be a classic, but a lot of women also go for men that remind them of their fathers and not all fathers are tall dark and handsome. ill be honest in that i was a little unsettled being told by different ex's that some quality of mine reminded them of their father's or their grandad's but that was one of the reasons they were attracted to me in the first place.
Another thing is facial hair, some women love it, and some women hate it. I find i get different views from women when i have a beard. Some hate it, and others really really like it.
As for money... well the ones that are only after that aren't worth chasing anyway.
09.04.2007, 12:36 quote
| danni82 wrote: |
| make the first message you send something good not just the age old hi how you doing in joey tribiani esk writing. i can hand on heart say that 90% of those messages i have say hi i am hony i have cam how about a session. why should i reply to them? |
Well I'd say those guys have provided clear evidence that they have no personality you're interested in, regardless of how good they look!
But wow. 500+ messages. I don't even get that many Viagra or stock tip spams.
09.04.2007, 12:37 quote
ok, ive been reading thru this thread and its quite funny that you huys have the same insecurities as us women..
but imo, looks play a small factor in it, to a certain extent, the fact you you have to fancy someone... but ive dated people who are stunning and some who are not..
and ive dated guys with muscles, skinny guys, fat guys, no hair and all diff hair types...
and most women, tend to go for the person inside as your so-called dream guy, usually turns out not as you expected, so some women make exceptions..
so im not saying all women, this is from my own experience, and from my mates experieces
09.04.2007, 12:48 quote
| twistedvoilet wrote: |
| ok, ive been reading thru this thread and its quite funny that you huys have the same insecurities as us women..
but imo, looks play a small factor in it, to a certain extent, the fact you you have to fancy someone... but ive dated people who are stunning and some who are not.. and ive dated guys with muscles, skinny guys, fat guys, no hair and all diff hair types... and most women, tend to go for the person inside as your so-called dream guy, usually turns out not as you expected, so some women make exceptions.. so im not saying all women, this is from my own experience, and from my mates experieces |
I agree with you, although i think looks are important and you need that attraction to want to get to know someone.
But i was chased by someone i really didnt fancy, but i totally fell for him because he had such a lovely, unique personality! Didnt change the fact he was an arsehole and broke my heart, but thats another story!
09.04.2007, 12:48 quote
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Ok first one i come to say's
do u have msn adress? may i add u?
shows me he is either a spammer after my email or a desperate kid wanting cam fun
2
I managed to get your name and adress from many others. I hope this letter would establish an intimate fiendship between us . my name is madaji , 30 years old and optométrist . my aim from this friendship is to echange ideas ,to discuss topic ,and to konw about each other's country and traditions
spam spam spam
3
it's a good job nobody is in i was just getting off with my flat screen! llol ...... u vhoT.
What a twat, what girl wants to hear that you've just knocked one out
4
hi sweety can i se u
what kind of message is that?
and thats just the first 4 in the box they get worse. one went into detail about his fantasy of shitting on my head whilst i do dirty things nice and classy
So yeah that is why i only reply to those that make the effort to read my prfile see i have a boyfriend and only want to chat.
Yes i may be selfish but im entitled to be
09.04.2007, 12:52 quote
bloody hell... mind you i've been on here for a year (crikey!) and i've only gotten spam once. wonder why women are targeted more considering there is more men.
09.04.2007, 12:52 quote
| danni82 wrote: |
| Home
Flirtbox Pub (Chat) Flirtbox Videos Discussion boards Today's Birthday List Your Messages (32/582) Ok first one i come to say's do u have msn adress? may i add u? shows me he is either a spammer after my email or a desperate kid wanting cam fun 2 I managed to get your name and adress from many others. I hope this letter would establish an intimate fiendship between us . my name is madaji , 30 years old and optométrist . my aim from this friendship is to echange ideas ,to discuss topic ,and to konw about each other's country and traditions spam spam spam 3 it's a good job nobody is in i was just getting off with my flat screen! llol ...... u vhoT. What a twat, what girl wants to hear that you've just knocked one out 4 hi sweety can i se u what kind of message is that? and thats just the first 4 in the box they get worse. one went into detail about his fantasy of shitting on my head whilst i do dirty things nice and classy So yeah that is why i only reply to those that make the effort to read my prfile see i have a boyfriend and only want to chat. Yes i may be selfish but im entitled to be |
not all us blokes our into doing kinky things with a flatscreen lol
09.04.2007, 12:53 quote
See, those of us who average 0.005 responses/day do not properly appreciate all the filth you have to sift through to get one genuine response from someone who is attractive either inside or out! Hence threads such as these.
09.04.2007, 12:54 quote
why waste time sending that type of drivel? if you find a girl you like and decide to take the time to message her, then why type stuff that will only put her off you?
09.04.2007, 12:59 quote
| ChiefOHara wrote: |
| bloody hell... mind you i've been on here for a year (crikey!) and i've only gotten spam once. wonder why women are targeted more considering there is more men. |
What you've just said explains it there is more men so the likely hood is that women will get more messages than men i think the ratio on here is something like 4 to 1 or something. but alot of the profiles with no pics are fakes and genrally the ones sending the spam
but you learn to ignore it
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