Now, when I joined an internet dating site I expected to be contacted by a whole spectrum of people, and why not? It's the internet - it gives a person access to a whole new world.

BUT where on my profile does it say - "all I'm interested in is sex with random strangers"?

I'm a red blooded woman. I like sex. I'm also a human being with a f**king brain. Who wants to go out, have a good time and have my mind as well as my body exercised.

Is this too much to ask?

Why can't I have a conversation with someone whilst messaging that makes me laugh because they have tickled my sense of humour and not because just sending me "I want to lick your wet pussy" is such a turn off it brings me out in fits derision!

I'm not talking about the ones who send one message that is guff and get ignored. I'm talking about the ones who I engage in relatively normal conversations with then they randomly ask me what my bra size is, if I shave or wax or if I would spank them.

I'm not judging any woman who wants to met someone solely for sex - although I know from my job how seriously wrong that can go - I'm not that person and I didn't think I came across as that person.

I just wonder where has all the bloody effort has gone?

I'm quite tired so not sure if I've got the point across in my rant. Please excuse me if it makes no sense. Any views in relation to it are more than welcome

P.S. This excludes all members who I converse with on the forum. You are all stars!

"P.S. This excludes all members who I converse with on the forum. You are all stars!"

Oh good, in that case, can Megalone's goat lick your wet pussy?

I jest, of course.

Seriously now, this is a subject that comes up time and time again, I think the consensus of opinion some time ago was "Its the internet, get used to it".

Sadly, I have no other appropriate-for-these-forums comment to make.

In reply to the Thread question, the ones of which you speak have prolly watched too much Debbie Does Dallas or whatever by themselves and have lost all social skills, if they had any to start with before they found out how to type with one hand....

I know its not surprise to anyone.

I just wanted to have a rant about it.

I have conversed with Mega's goat and he has never said anything of the sort to me. If he wasn't a goat he would be a true gentleman.

Well in all honesty I dont blame you ranting, its bloody disappointing for anyone when the twonky PMs outweigh by miles the decent ones.

I think that they must get some success with it, either that or they are stumbling their way into finding what normal etiquette is on here.

But in fairness I've been told without asking bra sizes, shaven details and that they wanted to be spanked in the past all by people whose profiles wouldn't suggest it likely to come up in initial conversation.

Now admittedly I don't remember actively discouraging these things but it has taken me by surprise on occasion how much people will talk about. (In fact any more women who feel the need go straight ahead)

Not to say that all conversations have gone this way by any means, but more than a couple.
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I had a PM from a woman off here a few months ago, it simply said "38DD?". I replied, "Nope" then blocked her so she couldn't guess again. I'm so mean...

Owww.... I've just got fed up with the lot of 'em! Fed up with chat/cam/messaging for months and going nowhere.... just want to meet in the real world pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeze and be appreciated as an interesting person, as well as being sexy

I can honestly say that I have never messaged anyone with anything ilke that.

If a girl did it to me, I'd only think 'slag'.

Then again, this IS 'flirtbox', perhaps some of the people on the main site want just that.

To me it seems pretty pointless though, there should be something you can select on your profile show it flags up that you don't want dirty talk at all, and are truly interested in intelligent conversation rather than smut.

It makes me feel a little sad when I think of the genuine ones getting pretty much just the smut and not what they really want.

If I were you, I'd message them back, telling them to get f*cked and block them, eventually, that would work.

I am sure that there are many genuine people on here, but the problem is they are a little more shy than the dirty perves.....

Is this the beginning of a romantic revolution? Or rather revival? Thank God

The internet has sped up nearly everything:
education, banking, shopping, communication, etc

Maybe its time to accept that forming decent relationships can't always be fast-tracked, in spite of the technological premise.