Yup.

But isnt so sad that thousands of people right now all over the planet are sat at their computers who haven't realised that yet?

LMAO - Teggro - so silly.

And if you cant fall in love with someone you never met, how come people run off to America and live happily ever after and stuff? I personally dont believe you can fall in love with someone you havent met, but people do these crazy things dont they!

I dont think you can blame someone who is "mentally damaged" as you so delicately put it for a relationship not working.
When she finds the one person who can fulfill her needs, she will settle with them and be happy. Clearly, and this is no slur on you, you couldnt do that for her.

I dont think Moose was inferring that you have to have sex with someone before you can truly love them. Its the inflection of voice, facial expressions, quirky little mannerisms, what is not said, the physical presence of their aura, when its just email or phone call all these things are interpetted as you want them to be....even a blind person can tell the difference between a voice on the phone and the real thing....I know what he meant, but I cant really put it into words, maybe someone else can.
As to people running off to america to live happily ever after, thats lucky, they worked at it and held the rosy image into reality. Good for them. Sure there must be some, and thats wonderful, but its a risky chance to take. Maybe when someone throws their all into the unknown it has a chance of working, I know of one couple who met through a 'bride catalogue website" and they have 2 kids now. Cant tell you the happiness level, but they've obviously worked at it.
As for your lady - she was not so 'mentally damaged' that you were not able to be attracted to her, it amazes me when things dont work out the man (or woman, to be fair) has no conception of looking at where he himself might have failed and assumes she had some deep seated problem - after all, if she had not been mentally damaged by someone before you, there is NO doubt she would have thought you were the best things since sliced bread????!!!!!
Sheesh, talk about conceit.
Maybe you simply werent as perfect for her as you thought you were? Ever consider that?
Or is it really that every woman you've ever met that wasnt so into you must have some deep seated problem and isnt capable of making her own judgment about who is right for her? Or isnt allowed to make her own mistakes without the sour grapes getting in the way?

DeepthroatH:
No, but I can blame it on her telling me a pack of lies. The "mentally damaged" comment comes from a lot more than me not being able to keep up with her sexual appetite. There was lots of other things that changed when we met. 90% of all the things she said she enjoyed and things about her personality weren't at all true. So she had been lying to me all the time we were talking on the phone. I'm better off without her and it taught me a valuable lesson, never trust anything anyone says online or on the phone!

rocketgirl:
I got to experience all the things you mention, with the exception of her aura, but when we met, it was sparks from the outset (without going into too much detail). Modern technology is a wonderful thing, webcams and microphones make it almost like that person is sat in front of you!

Oh ADDITIONAL: If she wasn't out to hurt me the why would she deliberate say such hurtful things to me. If she showed some tact and explained why it wasn't working for her and the fact that she lied about what she liked and was looking, maybe I would have thought more favourable about her. I have moved on and I am a better stronger person for it and now I have met an amazing women.

Hindsight is a wonderful thing and yes it has made me a lot less trusting of people I meet online. It's so easy to make up any façade online and I guess I fell for it. Maybe at the time I was blinded by my feelings, most of these realisations came weeks afterwards when I was thinking more clearly. I still don't necessarily agree with what Moose said. You can fall in love with someone online or over the phone but that will only carry over if both parties are 100% honest with each other and turn out to be how they *marketed themselves* online.

Oh and thanks for the best wishes with my current relationship.

And I have quite enjoyed this; I love a good debate
(as you probably have noticed by my postings so far)