i am talking within a relationship, how bad have you let things go before you actually dumped them?am curious as alice me

he got abusive and we broke up then ended up back together and he did it again then he cheated on me and after all that i ended it

I was with my ex for 5 and a half years before we finally decided to call it a day. Although i reckon we broke up about 5 times within that time.

She suffered from depression and got abusive sometimes, both physically and mentaly, very arguementative ect.

I put up with this as i knew it wasn't her and was due to her "illness" and her home life. We planned on getting a place together but our finances just wouldn't allow it.

Anyway in the end, when it was really bad i decided to call it a day and we split. We never spoke to each other for about a year after that but she got back in contact with me and we're now good friends.

Rick x

I think that when I my exgirlfriend moved her parents into the house opposite that was time to call it a day. !!!

Put a knife in the fork drawer then posted on the internet about it.

If you need separate drawers for them you have too much cutlery.
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Getting pregnant by her ex didn't impress me very much. That was the end of that. Still, I prefer to try not to dwell on bad experiences. It's all about moving forward etc, not back.

A bit of history first.

I met this woman from Manchester through myspace, a few message went back and forth, then moved onto instant messenger. A few days late after talking on instant messenger, I asked for her phone number so we could continue talking while I walked to work. We talked for hours every day on the phone with me running a number of huge phone bills. To cut a long story short we fell in love through our conversations. After a couple of months we finally met and things went amazingly for the first two days, loads of the usual new relationship stuff but on day three because I didn't want to have constant sex because I was tired frankly, she basically said that she feels the relationship had gone platonic and that she would rather be alone than be with me. Obviously that hurt a lot as she had been telling me that she loved me for weeks beforehand and even right upto that morning. The conclusion that I came to was she had every intention of using and hurting me to get revenge on MEN because her ex husband wouldn't lay a hand on her which makes me think she equates LOVE with SEX. It still hurts a little bit now as I had become so emotionally attached to her and for her to turn out to be such a callous bitch almost destroyed me emotionally!

I know that technically I didn't let it get that bad, but that's the worst feeling I have ever had in a relationship!

i brought her £200 earrings later that night her n my best mate had found the bed

My first ex boyfriend was very violent. He was lovely for the first 6 months, and then he got nasty. I put up with it for 2 years before thinking "Hang on a minute..this isn't right."

He also cheated on a regular basis and pretty much made me feel like shit.



Last straw was him putting me in hospital again, I refused to even speak to him after that.
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Laura
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Confidence - Wear it like make up.