Like seriously, I dont know if its just most of the people on here arent real or what, half the time we will be messaging each other and things will be going fine when suddenly they just decide to stop replying to my messages and ignoring me altogether, with no reason for doing so (I check to make sure they read my messages and they do). Am I the only one having this problem? Like seriously, ignoring is the most annoying and irresponsible way of telling someone they arent what you're looking for, I at least deserve the respect of being told so rather than just being driven to annoyance wondering why I am being ignored and if I'm wasting my time waiting for a response, (this is the main reason I hate online dating). Does anyone know why people do this, my only guesses are irresponsibility, scammers, rudeness, or the delusion that people would rather be ignored than told straight.

I agree its odd...my experience though is no response means no interest. Dust yourself off and move on.

Although I have to agree with TPAM 90 %, I would also like to say that I've received messages from one guy I really like and now I can't reply to them. The site refuses to send my messages (new ones as well)... all I get when I send them is disappointed smilies... At first I thought he blocked me, but then I got a message from him asking me if he had offended me; to which I can also not reply... Which leaves me feeling guilty actually!

Yeah that's a problem I remember gypsymoon had too, unfortunately I don't think she managed to resolve it.

I think you could work your way around it with a new profile but it's less than ideal for certain.

Pity they don't read the forum at least they'd find out that way that there was an issue.

Actually, I did make a new profile... made me feel a bit weird doing it, but better than the guilt trip thing... Did send a message from the new profile with an explanation that actually got sent... keeping my fingers crossed now

Well its good to hear that I'm not the only one having this problem. I wasnt aware that such a bug existed, sucks that it does though as that might explain half of my cases. :/

Kyle, being ignored is really frustrating and annoying, but you have to simply accept the fact that actually MOST people have very little in the way of manners or courtesy. And as someone else said "just move on"

you're lucky anyone even replies to you, what is it with this, no one seems to contact me once i've sent them a message. im not even a pervert as well

Well Mattsix... I don't know why they don't answer you. I definitely would, were you in my age bracket, that is

Well thanks Don't know what to say! This is madness...I guess this whole online thing is silly, I'm getting no where

Good to see you

I really can't stand it when people ignore me...its ignorant and disrespectful.

I'd sooner someone just be honest with you and tell you they don't want to know you anymore.

Its a pathetic, cowardly action.

*End rant*
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