When it comes to women, what's you major turn ons? ME? Giggling.

And what about your turn offs.

In my case I would say:
bad and slow driver specially when comes from men with no apparent reason

Make noise when eating (that one kills me)

Vulgarity

Mediocracy

Cheapskate

Oh gosh, you name it.

My turn ons:
Well, YOU (the special one)
etc

Well there's 2 words that I find such a turn on when they're put together and said to me in the right tone and situation, that really turn me on BUT I'm not telling as I wouldn't want them to be misused... I can tell you though that they aren't swear words or love words.

Turn off would be a lick in my ear I hate that, and any arousal I may have been feeling up to that point just goes back to square one.

I would have to say that anything to do with my neck and ears!! (Mirrorpool had it right to say that a lick in the ear would stop everything..YUK!!) But a soft whisper in my ear, a little nibble on my ear lobe, lips gently kissing my neck, and a little love bite on my shoulder!!!! But the best turn on for me would be a man that was kind, caring, happy, and loving. Now if just such a man could exist!!


My turn off would have to be someone that can't take a joke and can't laugh at themselves once in a while. Don't take everything so seriously boyz!!!

turn on - buttons

turn off - nagging

Hmmm....Turn ons. I think that a definite turn on for me is when a guy just takes control, or loses control. Either one. I love to be kissed passionately up against a wall. There is nothing better.

A turn off would be when a guy just keeps whispering in my ear "Did you orgasm yet? Is it good?" GAH! I can not stand it when a guy is not confident in bed. There is nothing that is a bigger turn off.

PS I actually had a guy ask me that during love. Not lying. It was the worst 4 minutes I have ever experienced. I can only be happy that it was short bad love instead of long bad love. I've had both. *sigh*

The net is no way to judge anyone, as there's too many keyboard warriors about. Probably one of the problems with net dating.

i could go on forever here but ill chop it up abit and moderate it for publicness n what have you. turn ons:

being teased (has to be done well though), never gets old;

slow motion (absolutely kills me when combined with being teased);

stockings;

being blindfolded;

eye contact (though not so easy with a blindfold on).

turn offs:

drunkenness;

coldness;

being overly serious;

going too fast too quick, take your time! there's no rush;

ugg-ugg's.

there are many more of both, but that would be giving away too much indeed.

Major turn on for me is 'that' look..

you know the one i'm talking about - the slight grin with a flicker of naughtiness in her eyes..
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Turn ons: Dancing intimately, gazing into eachothers eyes, a cheeky smile, a silly streak and confidence.

Turn offs: liars and people who take life too seriously.

Oooo this thread is good, seems like I've got more going for me than I'd realised


A guy with sparkling eyes will make me melt

long legs

Turn ons:
Long hair, especially when a woman knows how to use it for best effect (and I'm not just talking about looking pretty either ).

A nice smile. Any woman with a cute smile has got my attention straight away.

Femininity. A woman who knows how to look good most of the time rather than jeans and a baggy sweatshirt, even lounging around the house. I guess it's because I'm a leg man that I prefer to see more skirts and dresses. A bit of nylon around the legs does wonders too

Turn Offs:
Vulgarity. Crass and vulgar behavior would make me head for the door very quickly.

Flirting. Sorry girls but in my view, it's only one step down from outright unfaithfulness. Especially bad when your partner is there to witness it, it's like you're telling them to clear off because you've found someone better. Also it can cause trouble if the guy thinks you're serious and I'd have to come and pull him off you, (not that I'd be around for long if you flirted with someone else in front of me).

Distancing or stand-offish: I am the type that shows my feelings physically and love to be close and in contact a lot. It would put me off fast if you couldn't stand cuddling or just holding hands if you have a thing about cuddling when in public.