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29.09.2009, 11:15 quote

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glenny1987 wrote:
I kind of agree, but personally im new to this i think there is not much to my profile becuae i havent got a clue what to write, its quite hard to take soemthing from yourself that you think other people might find interesting becuase to you its just your normal everyday thing

Yeah, I think a lot of people find writing about themselves hard but the Questions section actually helps people to think about what others might want to know about them.
Take a chance on what others might be interested to know about you as it really does make a difference in your mail box, and it's easier to sort out the men who've taken a serious step to know more about you than just what you look like unless you're just after nice

 

29.09.2009, 11:24 quote

glenny1987
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thats a very good tip actually, but the only things i can fidn are thigns about films i like tv etc unless i havent found what im meant to be doing yet lol. I def dont want nice its 2 confusing for my children x

 

29.09.2009, 11:24 quote

glenny1987
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thats a very good tip actually, but the only things i can fidn are thigns about films i like tv etc unless i havent found what im meant to be doing yet lol. I def dont want nice its 2 confusing for my children x

 

29.09.2009, 11:30 quote

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I still rank those who place their dislike of rudeness/rude people as a MAJOR off put! Especially when they turn out to be the greatest exponents of the art of rudeness themselves and thus demonstating their hypocracy at the same time!

It really is a shame that uncouth and those just seeking sexual kicks have spoilt what should be an excellent medium for meeting/making new friends or even possibly starting new relationships!

I tinkered with my profile a couple of weeks ago and put some really grungy comments there! Yet to my amazment my visitors and messages actually increased!
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29.09.2009, 11:57 quote

glenny1987
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Ok so i think i have now done my profile, i am not whether it is good or not, still wasnt sure what to write lol. But hey i guess we will see what happens. 1 thing i dont like is when people say on their profiles openly that "i am a bitch" its more of a statement where you are tryin to say "stay the hell away" or soemthing along those terms

 

29.09.2009, 12:11 quote

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glenny1987 wrote:
Ok so i think i have now done my profile, i am not whether it is good or not, still wasnt sure what to write lol. But hey i guess we will see what happens. 1 thing i dont like is when people say on their profiles openly that "i am a bitch" its more of a statement where you are tryin to say "stay the hell away" or soemthing along those terms

I always find the biggest problem is trying to sell yourself truthfully without making it sound too egotistical. On the other hand, if you play it down too much, it doesn't entice someone to contact you or reply to you.

 

29.09.2009, 12:15 quote

glenny1987
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i think mines jus a load of rammblin, lol. i dont really care much for selling myself, i just put the truth lol, if someone likes it then im happy but if they dont i guess im not that fussed either. Im jus happy talking in forums. i think 1 thing i did forget to mention on my profile though, is that im actually quite blunt and down to the point o well lol il do it another day if i remember

 

19.11.2009, 09:14 quote

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think i need to put more about me in my .... about me haha UT

 

19.11.2009, 11:05 quote

grooveme
grooveme Joined: 23 Aug 2008 Posts: 1532 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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If the main profile pic is a picture of a shirtless male torso. Sooooo off putting!!! UT
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19.11.2009, 17:40 quote

eggsarnie

yeah people that dont put anything get no messages from (maybe thats a good thing for them actually)

but a lot of pictures look TOO good to be true aswell. so i dont really trust them people either.

most of my selection is done by how close people are to me

 

01.12.2009, 15:54 quote

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i hate it when peoples profiles just say

" lookin for nice women " or on the lines of that! Bores the living day lights outta me.

And if they don't have a picture and are serious about this site. I appreciate some people, like myself arent serious about this site and therefore dont always have a pic but dudes if your looking for nice women, no nice women are gunna even register u.

 

01.12.2009, 16:05 quote

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When in the Dislike section the only thing you see is "liers"

I mean, ok, nobody likes a liar, but surely it's not the only thing you dislike? And at least have the decency to spell it right.
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01.12.2009, 17:35 quote

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whysoserious1983 wrote:
When in the Dislike section the only thing you see is "liers"

I mean, ok, nobody likes a liar, but surely it's not the only thing you dislike? And at least have the decency to spell it right.


Seem to see that alot too!

DOes that mean they would like someone if they told the truth that you only wanted love and someone to borrow money off?
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01.12.2009, 18:51 quote

whysoserious1983
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bonjovi01 wrote:
DOes that mean they would like someone if they told the truth that you only wanted love and someone to borrow money off?


I have to admit that the thought has crossed my mind a couple of times. I haven't been brave enough to try putting it to the test, but maybe I will.
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05.12.2009, 14:32 quote

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I think the biggest thing that puts me off a profile and makes me not want to email them is if its a blokes profile. Laughing

Oh and if i get bored later i will try the 'Liar line' see if it works lol.
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