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07.07.2009, 10:28 quote

s6boystu
s6boystu Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 3122 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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i saw that same profile over the weekend scottie but being as it was rather vague i just carried on browsing
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If there really is to be a soul mate out there, I think your soul mates are those people who make you feel at home, wherever you are. That hearing their voices and knowing they're close to you (even if in thought) makes you feel at ease.

 

07.07.2009, 10:35 quote

s6boystu
s6boystu Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 3122 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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s6boystu wrote:
i saw that same profile over the weekend scottie but being as it was rather vague i just carried on browsing


i just realised that after i said that - my 'about me' box was blank Laughing so i've now filled it in ! i'm such an ass some times Laughing
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If there really is to be a soul mate out there, I think your soul mates are those people who make you feel at home, wherever you are. That hearing their voices and knowing they're close to you (even if in thought) makes you feel at ease.

 

07.07.2009, 14:55 quote

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s6boystu wrote:
s6boystu wrote:
i saw that same profile over the weekend scottie but being as it was rather vague i just carried on browsing


i just realised that after i said that - my 'about me' box was blank Laughing so i've now filled it in ! i'm such an ass some times Laughing


Haha! good one stu!

 

11.07.2009, 14:14 quote

sc0ttie

just having no picture puts me off.

 

18.07.2009, 15:13 quote

lawnranger
lawnranger Joined: 19 May 2009 Posts: 212 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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i find profiles with hobbies listed as crying and hating men is a little off putting Smile

 

18.07.2009, 15:17 quote

cmiso

Look I don't criticise your hobbies.... Laughing

 

18.07.2009, 15:32 quote

sometimesalways

The phrase "don't know what to put". That is second only to "don't no wat to put".

What are you supposed to do with that?!

 

18.07.2009, 15:42 quote

lawnranger
lawnranger Joined: 19 May 2009 Posts: 212 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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sometimesalways wrote:
"don't no wat to put".

What are you supposed to do with that?!


i reckon you should message some of them...along the lines of...


i DoN nO WaTt Too PuT EiVer, SuMmAt In CoMoN InNit!

FaNcEe A dAte?

Could be a winner

 

18.07.2009, 17:08 quote

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Just your average..........I'm a normal bloke......like the same things as most people.......etc.

HOW BORING IS THAT???

I'm attracted to DIFFERENT and I don't mean weird, I just mean somebody who can think outside the box, has interests and opinions may also have a few whacky ideas.


Also, I'm put off by all the pics that show people drunk or show booze to be a major part of enjoying life.

THE ODD WILD NIGHT PIC IS OK,

I wouldn't want to be with somebody who's life revolved around a pub or drugs

 

18.07.2009, 17:43 quote

lawnranger
lawnranger Joined: 19 May 2009 Posts: 212 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Profile pictures that are too dark put me off. Laughing

Time to get the camera out again! eek! I hate posing for photos!

In seriousness it's a pretty small space to sum up one's dream, hopes, interests, display one's sparkling personality and scintillating wit, post some pictures that do you justice from the right angle.

Therefore the more info on a profile the better. I think sometimes people put what they think their fellow daters would like to read rather than give a picture of their true self or lack confidence and leave it too vague.

I suppose vague profiles are the worst because how can you gauge whether there is any potential connection if you don't know anything about someone? You might as well start calling random numbers from the phone book and asking them out on a date.

Imagine all these perfect partners that we are missing because they are sat behind a crap profile?

 

18.07.2009, 17:47 quote

sometimesalways

lawnranger wrote:
sometimesalways wrote:
"don't no wat to put".

What are you supposed to do with that?!


i reckon you should message some of them...along the lines of...


i DoN nO WaTt Too PuT EiVer, SuMmAt In CoMoN InNit!

FaNcEe A dAte?

Could be a winner



Looking at some of the Guestbook postings around here, reckon some of the blokes on here might have beaten me to that one...

 

18.07.2009, 17:56 quote

lawnranger
lawnranger Joined: 19 May 2009 Posts: 212 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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are you right? you're not wrong!

 

18.07.2009, 19:54 quote

BusyB
Joined: 23 Sep 2003 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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Would have to agree with Scottie, empty profiles are so snooze inducing!

 

20.07.2009, 23:04 quote

earthwormjimmy

people who put negative things on theis about me, its their chance to stand out and they whine. whats that about? Rolling Eyes

 

21.07.2009, 14:15 quote

sc0ttie

earthwormjimmy wrote:
people who put negative things on theis about me, its their chance to stand out and they whine. whats that about? Rolling Eyes


Has someone been dissing you mate? Rolling Eyes

 
 
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