Seeing as this site is 80%+ males, us blokes have a major disadvantage, whereas you ladies have plenty of choice. As always, there are a number of girls who want to share their bodies with as many men as possible, then there are more respectfull ones who are looking for something longer lasting. Of course, this also applies to the men.

I've been on various dating sites for around 4 or 5 years now and to be quite honest, i've spoken to only a handfull of "nice" people in all that time. In fact, i get very few responses at all. I don't think my profiles are badly written or pervy, in fact those that actually read them say i'm really funny and "refreshing".

I don't email women at random...if i send a mail it's because i've found someone i really like, although most never reply. If i was asking if they enjoyed anal sex, dogging or spunk in their hair, i'd understand the silence but i'm actually quite friendly and none pervy.

Sooo, that leaves several possibilities:
1. I'm just a weirdo/pervert and don't realise it
2. modern day women actually LIKE being sent pervy mail and meeting blokes for sex
3. I'm being judged by my photo. Nobody is actually reading my profile as i'm not gorgeous enough and she's thinking "i can do better".

What i'm asking is (particularly the ladies on here) to look at my profile. Read it. Look at my photo. Now tell me HONESTLY, why do you think i'm so undesirable?

I can't find anything wrong with your profile.

Some women are just...I don't know.

Your profile is fine except for one glaring thing.

Your "about me" description is rambling. Exceptionally rambling.

I'm sure it's witty or something, but I took one look at that extraordinary amount of text and thought "ahh. Maybe not".

Everything else seemed fine? Your pic is fine, all your likes and dislikes seemed decent enough, even the sex bit wasn't crude.

You might want to ditch sex from likes/dislikes if you're seeking to get more replies - It could alienate some women, thinking that's what you're solely after (even though you do say otherwise).

Honestly dude? I think that the username might not be doing you any favours, it sounds a bit desperate. Maybe the lady doesn't feel special because it seems that you are looking for a relationship and anyone (within reason) will do. Perhaps a little more initial mystery would help, rather than being so immediately open about your intentions.

I'm not expressing my point well here as it's late and I'm tired, I sincerely hope I haven't offended you though because you seem like a good bloke.

I could agree with e2 on the username choice actually. It's potentially a pothole before they've even considered looking at your profile.

We could be looking at this too deep? We're no nearer to finding out the exact ratio of men to women on this site, but you might just be unlucky and falling under the other piles of men.

No insults taken guys, i'm quite placid really. I have to agree that my username is too "in your face", however my usual "wotsisname" was unavailable.... lol