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26.07.2009, 08:03 quote

sweetseductive82
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[img][/img] i just need some hints.. i wanted to be the best in my man..pls guys help

 

26.07.2009, 08:07 quote

sweetseductive82
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[img][/img] i just need some hints.. i wanted to be the best in my man..pls guys help

 

26.07.2009, 08:44 quote

sc0ttie

Nothing can MAKE a guy stick with a woman. He just has to want to. Confused

 

26.07.2009, 08:52 quote

jfire

well me personally as a man we love affection lots of it sometime the smallest things mean so much but every guy is different be more aggressive get more sexy looking guys like a female to be very aggresive in bed learn to spice things up I know I like it lol hope it helps it works for me

 

27.07.2009, 18:08 quote

s6boystu
s6boystu Joined: 07 Mar 2008 Posts: 3089 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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sweetseductive82 wrote:
i just need some hints.. i wanted to be the best in my man..pls guys help


You know it's not one sided don't you.. A decent relationship will be him wanting to be the best for you and vice versa.

All you'll end up doing is make him either
A) lazy
or
B) run away because you're always there !
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If there really is to be a soul mate out there, I think your soul mates are those people who make you feel at home, wherever you are. That hearing their voices and knowing they're close to you (even if in thought) makes you feel at ease.

 

01.08.2009, 13:46 quote

bliss23

Speaking of which... What makes a woman stick with a guy for a life time? LOL

Actually... To be completely fair... What makes someone stick with someone else for a life time? Laughing

 

01.08.2009, 13:50 quote

70

A big measure of insanity

 

01.08.2009, 14:09 quote

cmiso

I think it would be better to ask people who have stuck together for a lifetime. Tricky as at least one would be dead though I guess.

 

01.08.2009, 14:14 quote

stormrosebbw

I believe if you enter into a friendship or relationship not having any expectations of the other person the atmosphere is far more relaxed and a friendship can develop and maybe more...Pressure invariably scares men off...Any thoughts on this guys?

 

01.08.2009, 15:30 quote

ukjazz

I'm still figuring this one out. For me while its true that too much pressure might scare a guy off, I also think you should both be honest about what you want. If one wants a life partner and the other wants a fling its not going to work out anyway, is it? So maybe just be yourself from the start and if what you wants scares one person off, then the same behaviour will probably attract someone more suited to you anyway.

 

01.08.2009, 15:56 quote

akissgoodnight

The best thing you can do to help a man to stay is love him, I mean really love him! You cant force anyone to love you but your main goal is to make sure there is no reason why he would want to stray. Be interested in the things he enjoys, give him his freedom, remember the small but very important moments, laugh with him and treat him like you want him to treat you. Be real, be true and be you! Simple enough but yet, not as easy as it sounds (or so it would seem)...lol Good luck!!!

 

01.08.2009, 16:34 quote

phil1380

Men are very simple to keep happy haha food love and sleep. It also all depends whether you are right for each and both peoples ability to compromise.

 

01.08.2009, 18:16 quote

stormrosebbw

akissgoodnight wrote:
The best thing you can do to help a man to stay is love him, I mean really love him! You cant force anyone to love you but your main goal is to make sure there is no reason why he would want to stray. Be interested in the things he enjoys, give him his freedom, remember the small but very important moments, laugh with him and treat him like you want him to treat you. Be real, be true and be you! Simple enough but yet, not as easy as it sounds (or so it would seem)...lol Good luck!!!



This is brilliant advice.

 

01.08.2009, 18:17 quote

stormrosebbw

UKJazz wrote:
I'm still figuring this one out. For me while its true that too much pressure might scare a guy off, I also think you should both be honest about what you want. If one wants a life partner and the other wants a fling its not going to work out anyway, is it? So maybe just be yourself from the start and if what you wants scares one person off, then the same behaviour will probably attract someone more suited to you anyway.


Honesty is the best.

 

01.08.2009, 23:55 quote

s6boystu
s6boystu Joined: 07 Mar 2008 Posts: 3089 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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akissgoodnight wrote:
The best thing you can do to help a man to stay is love him, I mean really love him! You cant force anyone to love you but your main goal is to make sure there is no reason why he would want to stray. Be interested in the things he enjoys, give him his freedom, remember the small but very important moments, laugh with him and treat him like you want him to treat you. Be real, be true and be you! Simple enough but yet, not as easy as it sounds (or so it would seem)...lol Good luck!!!


i kind of agree with this, vaguely. Perhaps it is the way i'm reading it, but basicly that just says 'smother him' to me ?

i know i've been out of the "game" for a while, but a few things i have learnt from previous relationships is that i like a bit of me time ! I'd like to be able to get up on a saturday morning and take a walk through the park on my own or pop down the shop's without getting the 5'th degree when i got back, questions like.. where have you been, when you walk in holding a tesco's carrier bag.. my favourite was this one..

"Why didn't you ask me if i wanted to come?"

it answers itself - you may have wanted to come, but i needed a breather. lol.

I've been in a relationship where my girlfriend was around me 24/7 and after a while all that happened was we started to annoy each other. I'd get up on sunday morning and wash the dishes from the night before and let her have a lay in - then she'd get up and whinge because she'd said she would do the dishes.. Confused strange thing is i actually find it funny now looking back on things that have happened in the past !

There was a point there somewhere.. but even i can't remember what it was Laughing
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