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05.10.2008, 03:31 quote
Im so discouraged, Ive tried being nice...has not worked..Ive tried being someone else, has not worked, tried being myself, has not worked...maybe because im shy its killing my chances please! I need help...all advice is appreciated
05.10.2008, 06:27 quote
Practice makes perfect, do not give up after a couple of goes.
Work on your technique and stick at it.
05.10.2008, 08:51 quote
Dear Mr ItalianBlood
I am most disturbed to hear of your dilemma.
The rustle of some of your lovely colourful currency might work wonders on the corner of Wellington & Somerset in Hintonburg (nearest stop O-Train Bayview).
Or you could peruse the delights of the less inhibited women-folk across the river in Gatineau.
Failing that, I can only recommend covering yourself in chocolate and attending Swizzles (Wednesday nights).
Yours most eloquently
Darkhorse Esq
05.10.2008, 11:26 quote
| italianblood wrote: |
| Im so discouraged, Ive tried being nice...has not worked..Ive tried being someone else, has not worked, tried being myself, has not worked...maybe because im shy its killing my chances please! I need help...all advice is appreciated |
Maybe your just trying to hard
don't give up though... 
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05.10.2008, 11:49 quote
You just have to meet the right person
Who will like you for you
Stop trying so hard..... desperation is a massive turn off
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05.10.2008, 13:13 quote
If you wrote to me I would reply, and say you live too far away, just wondering if you've mistakenly got in the wrong section of fbx 'cos sometimes I end up being in the Irish or Scottish sections without realising straight away....... but may be I'm just being 'dippy' 
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05.10.2008, 15:54 quote
Thanks for advice but I am actually not being super desperate, Im just very shy and when i meet a woman I get all quiet, and so i think it makes me look boring. any advice about shyness?
05.10.2008, 16:00 quote
| italianblood wrote: |
| Thanks for advice but I am actually not being super desperate, Im just very shy and when i meet a woman I get all quiet, and so i think it makes me look boring. any advice about shyness? |
In my experience shyness is about being worried you will look stupid if you speak up or being rejected.
The only way to fight shyness is to put yourself in those situations as much as possible until you feel more comfortable in them. It's not easy to start with and you may never stop feeling shy deep down inside, but you have to learn how to deal with it on the outside.
05.10.2008, 17:09 quote
| choochi0 wrote: | ||
In my experience shyness is about being worried you will look stupid if you speak up or being rejected. The only way to fight shyness is to put yourself in those situations as much as possible until you feel more comfortable in them. It's not easy to start with and you may never stop feeling shy deep down inside, but you have to learn how to deal with it on the outside. |
I agree with choochi
When I was young I was very shy, then I developed what I called a 'false confidence' which was about putting myself in those difficult situations, but eventually I kinda grew into it and became confident. Although there are still odd situations that I still find myself a little shy, but fortunately it doesn't seem to last long.
I think as you get older you don't care what a lot of people think about you, so it eliminates a the fear from a situation.
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05.10.2008, 17:55 quote
Well then I will try being confident!!! 
thank you guys!!! I really appreciate it! Best of wishes to all of you!
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