I believe that a common misconception amonst women is that you have to have a slim or athletic body to be sexually appealing to men.

The men I meet with particularlly at the gym where I train most of them like women who are curvy and shapely.

Now I now that there are men out there who probably like the women featured in mags like Zoo etc and men do ogle those photos and no doubt it can be intimidating to most "normal" women........ but my experience has shown that when it comes down to what kind of women do I want to peel the cloths off and get into bed beside................she most often doesn't look like a FHM or Zoo girl.

Someone on here always has a tag on her post "confidence wear it like make-up" and for me that is the essence of what will attract men......a woman who carries herself in a confident aren't I sexy manner will always pull men.

The best type of girl is one that will give you the time of day. Someone who will actually allow themselves to get to know your personality and not care about wether you have or haven't got certain things.

For example, i'm far from rich and don't have a car. Therefore i'm basically automatically cast aside as I won't be able to provide the girl with as many presents, pay for various nights out and take her to new places in my car.

What I want is to find a girl who is happy spending time with me as a person, we don't have to feel the need to do anything to have a good time, except for enjoying each others company.

It has happened to me before with a girlfriend, one mintue everything would be fine and great, we'd get on fantastic in each others company and not have to worry about going places every night. Then some guy comes a long with a car, starts to give her lifts home from clubs at night, lifts to various places... You know basically showing off that he has something that i don't have. then the next thing you know all the lifting and laying has paid off and she's no longer with you she's with him.

Is there anyone out there who can love a person for who they are... not what they have.

And God knows if I was able to to provide girls with everything they wanted iI would... But the fact that I can't has never stoped me from trying, but trying just isn't good enough.

Right here goes.

They have to be born a woman.
And still be a woman when I meet them.
They must have a pulse.
All the bits in the right place is nice.
Then the usual, looks, personality, etc.

The hand-speed of Steven Segal and the cooking skills and looks of Fanny Cradock.

Yes you passed that test quite well.

The kidneys...





I'll need one with all this caffeine consumption. Mmmmmm. The good one, too. Not some second rate crap kidney.

Dunno, wish someone would tell me
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Must:
be able to play the piano,
have been part of a cheesy pop group,
have done some TV presenting,
be on M & S adverts.


Other than that I'm not fussy

I think Mylene(sp?) is taken.