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04.11.2008, 01:40 quote

odhgabfe
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well, i said that because of her motives, more than what she actually did. the fact she was using her body/ sexuality to try and seduce another man out of a relationship that she knew he was in... and i yelled hey where you going, thats it. she said what she said, and i let her go walk away. so its not like i was chasing after her. i didnt even turn to follow her.

i guess ill ignore her and if she for some reasaon comes up to me i guess ill tell her "i honestly could care less but if you apologize i may give you an ear" or something like that.

thanks again guys. sorry if i hurt someone's feelings, but if a guy took advantage of a girl who was more drunk than he was, you'd call him a pig, understandably of course. maybe i am more sensitive about the way people treat me when im drunk because my drunkeness has been taken advantage of in the past, but thats a whole other story...

 

04.11.2008, 11:48 quote

rocketgirl

So, you get drunk and so it's not your fault other people take advantage of you?
Excuse me, but it may surprise you this but YOU are responsible for the amount of alcohol that you consume. AND therefore whatever happens next.
If you have a genuine alcohol problem, ie you are an alcoholic, seek help to quit.
Otherwise, next time you go out and get sozzled it might not just be a frivolous girl stealing a kiss from you while you are incapable of fending her off.
Take responsibility for yourself and your alcohol consumption then you might not have these problems.

Also, it might help to have friends who would help look out for you, rather than the shower you call friends who obviously feed off your leglessness.

 

04.11.2008, 12:02 quote

choochi0

odhgabfe wrote:
well, i said that because of her motives, more than what she actually did. the fact she was using her body/ sexuality to try and seduce another man out of a relationship that she knew he was in... and i yelled hey where you going, thats it. she said what she said, and i let her go walk away. so its not like i was chasing after her. i didnt even turn to follow her.

i guess ill ignore her and if she for some reasaon comes up to me i guess ill tell her "i honestly could care less but if you apologize i may give you an ear" or something like that.

thanks again guys. sorry if i hurt someone's feelings, but if a guy took advantage of a girl who was more drunk than he was, you'd call him a pig, understandably of course. maybe i am more sensitive about the way people treat me when im drunk because my drunkeness has been taken advantage of in the past, but thats a whole other story...


She's a pig. Happy now?

 

04.11.2008, 12:08 quote

rocketgirl

And she'd be a silly little girl for not taking responsibility for her own alcohol consumption, and her friends are worthless pigs for not looking out for her.
Twisted Evil

 

04.11.2008, 12:19 quote

choochi0

rocketgirl wrote:
And she'd be a silly little girl for not taking responsibility for her own alcohol consumption, and her friends are worthless pigs for not looking out for her.
Twisted Evil


Pork products all round!!!

 
 
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