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07.06.2006, 17:02 quote

Nidgeb
Nidgeb Joined: 12 Dec 2005 Posts: 5 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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im thinking its all about what the guy wants and likes really...diff guys....diff opinions haha

 

10.06.2006, 00:17 quote

Anonymous

If we are honest it depends where we meet them, i would usually start to chat to someone i thought was up for a laugh and attractive. I cant stand girls who are very pretty yet cant make the effort to say hello, they think they are above themselves, and me personally would leave them no matter how pretty they were.

I dont mind shy women, i think a shy women needs a little attention and after a few moments chatting to them they sudenlly become more confident, if they dont and you try hard, they are and always will be just boring!

Personal appearance is what i love, if they actually care how they look, and make an effort then its good. But i do have a habbit of making them chill and be comfortable with themselves.

 

10.06.2006, 02:06 quote

salsalaydee
salsalaydee Joined: 30 Jan 2005 Posts: 7 Location: United Kingdom, England, Derbyshire
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you give a man everything he wants, he only gonna want more, or your mates...he he...stop worrying about what they want, go get what you want...xx Laughing

 

10.06.2006, 18:15 quote

philipderivaz
philipderivaz Joined: 17 Oct 2005 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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Well it depends on the kind of relation they are looking for; i can speak for myself, i think that honesty is the most important thing; I also like a girl that is funny, feminine, easy going, not the moany kind, intelligent, someone who i can have a good convo with, etc...
I would be lying if i said that looks dont matter at all, but i can say that if you are looking for a relationship, you shouldn't focus too much on looks or it's pretty likely to fail

 

11.06.2006, 16:17 quote

Anonymous

Personaly I'm looking for someone who has the same kinda interests in like music / tv, going out, adventures personality, someone willing to be seen in a classic land rover, and who might want to go camping, shooting, holidaying etc.

I agree with pip above, on the looks are necessary, but not fundamental.
Manners are important, but not over the top polite.

Someone who's honest in a relationship. someone willing to do random things, is my kinda girl.

That's bout it for me...

 

12.06.2006, 09:57 quote

Anonymous

my view is; honesty, trust, loyalty, integrity, chemistry, personality, caring, fun, interesting, loving and most of all the best friend any man could ever have.
Isnt it basically what women look for in a man or what anyone in any relationship looks for in a partner?
Looks are important as are size but not the be and end all. I would hedge bets on the inner person being more important. I dont care how pretty a woman is I dont wanna be played or used and abused. just not interested in outer beauty with no substance, in fact I would be cautious of someone who was too attractive. Maybe because men run around after em and they always get what they want rather than appreciating or having to work for what they get.

I suppose it also important that they love u equally and that neither one has the upper hand. ie I want a buddy who I can talk about anything with and who can do the same with me and is on the same wavelength.

 

15.06.2006, 04:23 quote

TheDoc64
TheDoc64 Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, England, Hertfordshire
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flowerangelaura wrote:
danni82 wrote:


lol indeed.

One thing i found funny in 2 of the few dates i have been on, after talking to a guy online we get to the decribing bit and me being honest said im a curvy size 16. so genrally i find they go quiet. obviously trying to work out what that looks like lol so needless to say come the time i meet them for a date they look a bit shocked when the actually see me. i remember one guy actually had the balls to turn around and say wow when you said you were a size 16 i was expecting big mo to turn up lol needless to say 45 mins later i was home again


Some people are just idiots. I mean, i've just gone from a size 16 to a 12(because i wasn't happy), and when i met some guy, he said i was 'too small for my height' because i'm 5'8/9. So i've given up.


Thats such a shame. At the end of the day be who you are happy being and then you will meet someone that loves you for who you realy are rather than who you think they would rather you are. I hate shallowness. How many people make love to a persons body or make love to their mind. I know which it is for me!

 

15.06.2006, 08:29 quote

Anonymous

TheDoc64 wrote:


Thats such a shame. At the end of the day be who you are happy being and then you will meet someone that loves you for who you realy are rather than who you think they would rather you are. I hate shallowness. How many people make love to a persons body or make love to their mind. I know which it is for me!


It's difficult to be 17/18 and a size 16, when everybody else you know are like a size 8. But I do feel a lot happier now.

 

15.06.2006, 11:37 quote

Anonymous

Don't worry, they'll drop a couple of sprogs and pile on the pounds.

Confidence is the was forward, thought I do like a wicked glint

 

15.06.2006, 11:41 quote

Anonymous

whizzer wrote:
Don't worry, they'll drop a couple of sprogs and pile on the pounds.

Confidence is the was forward, thought I do like a wicked glint


I'm talking about like 1 or 2 years ago. Most of them do actually have kids now.

(hopefully that won't happen to me.)

 

15.06.2006, 11:47 quote

Anonymous

That's Nottingham for you...

What are you not wshing for the sprogs or the pounds?

 

15.06.2006, 11:47 quote

braska666
Joined: 02 Apr 2006 Posts: 5 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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I tell You what men really want, they want to marry a women who stays looking like a 20 year old for the rest off her life, dont pile on the pounds even after 4 kids, gives him a blow-job every morning even tho she been up all night cleaning sick from the babies duvet and never spends his money......neadless to say there aint such a women lol Laughing

 

15.06.2006, 11:48 quote

Anonymous

whizzer wrote:
That's Nottingham for you...

What are you not wshing for the sprogs or the pounds?


Nottingham is a chav-bound, shit filled place Crying or Very sad I want to get out of here as soon as i can. I hate it.

Both.

 

15.06.2006, 11:50 quote

Anonymous

braska666 wrote:
I tell You what men really want, they want to marry a women who stays looking like a 20 year old for the rest off her life, dont pile on the pounds even after 4 kids, gives him a blow-job every morning even tho she been up all night cleaning sick from the babies duvet and never spends his money......neadless to say there aint such a women lol Laughing


Haha, good luck with finding that woman

 

15.06.2006, 11:56 quote

Anonymous

flowerangelaura wrote:
whizzer wrote:
That's Nottingham for you...

What are you not wshing for the sprogs or the pounds?


Nottingham is a chav-bound, shit filled place Crying or Very sad I want to get out of here as soon as i can. I hate it.

Both.


Try loverly Derby then Laughing

Or move abroad - not met a single chav since I've been in india

 
 
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